I like him, but why does he do this? HELP!! i knew he was going out with another girl, Aliya, but then he asked me out, dumped me again, and then asked me out again. I didnt answer him yet cause i dunno what to do!!! I would really appreciate if you helped me!
2006-10-29 16:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have u ever hrad the phrase
"Fool me once shame on u, fool me twice shame on me"
that means when he ask u out knowing he had a g/f only to end up dumping u, shame on him.
And now that he 's trying to do it again and u know about this and u still go out with him only to get dumped again then shame on u for allow it to happen a 2nd time knowing it could happen.
So u shouldn't go out with this guy because he's the kind of guy who's only after what he can get out of whomever is willing to go out with him when he fights with his girlfriend to either make her mad or fill in while he and she are broken up
2006-10-29 16:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First off, you'd have done much better to just ask him why he asks this: that way there's an answer that will be a lot more accurate. You said it yourself: "...he has just about everything I'm looking for in a guy." why would you even consider leaving him? you're lucky to have found him, and unless he has major flaws, i would get ready to go the distance. if you do get ready to go the distance with him, give a big hug and tell him you're not going anywhere. If you do dump him, don't do it in the holidays, do it afterwards. that way he'll have the memories of one more season, and he won't feel alone all through the holidays(like he will if you dump him before) a good way to tell if he's passive aggressive: have you ever gotten into an arguement with him when he brings up something you thought was no big deal to him or to you? i'm all for the relationship, but if he won't let up (and talk to him about it plenty first) then dump his anxious A$$ and move on. if he is dragging you down, cut ties and fly free.
2016-05-22 06:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him,
maybe he loves you in some ways, so he reconsiders, but just cannot get over something that doesn't seem right, so he backs out.
maybe there are some subconscious motivations involved, that won't come across in a " talk " with him, don't waste time discussing it
Why are people so possessive? Let him go, find someone new
You find someone new. Be free from this seduction-betrayal relationship, it only gets worse as resentment and confusion and manipulation grow.
2006-10-29 16:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by million$gon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stupid to keep talking to this guy. You are a "til something better comes along" girl. He's always looking for the next better thing, and will dump you again.
2006-10-29 16:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Barry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should learn dear that a boyfriend is not a compensation for a deep sense of insecurity or a feeling of dissatisfaction with life. try to see where you are heading in life and make some targets you want to see yourself having attained someday before you set out looking for a partner. if you are clear about what you want in your life then only can you reflect that behavior and others would treat you that way too. so respect yourself and learn to say 'no' when required. cheers
2006-10-29 16:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by fleur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go back out with the guy,,, he's scum and u can do so much better. find a guy that will stand by you and not just take off at the sight of a pair of tight jeans that might give him "some". you're worth more than that.
2006-10-29 16:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by rickys_lil_mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he used you to fill up his empty time slot.
Are you having sex with him everytime you go out ?
If so, then he just use you for sex.
This always puzzle me to see girls getting into these relationships. Do bad boys really that attractive, even you were emotionally abused ?
2006-10-29 16:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's keeping you on the line.
# 1 he might want to come back some day.
#2 you aren't out with another guy.
2006-10-29 16:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn there is someone on this earth dumber than a rock..............and you mean to tell us YOU STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?Just sit by the phone and wait to get hurt again.
2006-10-29 16:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him, entirely. He's clearly an idiot, or using you in some way. I don't know the guy, I never will, but I know you can do better.
2006-10-29 16:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by HKNorla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋