when we first met we liked each other rightaway.problem was that I was just coming out from under my rock and I was really shy,so i didint talk much.tho I did try.but as time went onhe got kinda weird. at adventureland on the ski ride he said to me"Im going alone".he didint say it nicely either,but he didint yell.It hurt tho cause I had no intention on going w/ him,I was going on with my friend.then 2 moths later he asked me out.I said yes cuase I still liked him.weve been going out for at least 2 m. and he doesent call,claiming he doesent like phones.athomeciming he wouldint dance and when we did he turned away his facethe whole time and didint say a word.he looked really bored andwouldint talk w/ me.now we arent even friendsdontreally hang out thoi'd like to.weve hadno phisycal contact.hewont make any descions like what kind of pop he wants.I called him toask him to go to a haunted h.but he saidnot really a haunted house person.Me;thats ok,some people arent.a pauseheyelled Imsorryok?
2006-10-29 16:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey, I think u r still under a rock. Move on.......find someone nice, decend n who cares about human relationships..........n would respond in kind, warm words n action.
You should drop this so-called bf.........n ignore him completelt..... even if he calls, beg or whatsoever........just give him the cold shoulder n act as if he doesn't exist n you'd never ever even met him.
.....that way.....he's got paid abck in his own coins........while u r on your way to a new love, new fun & new warm friendship.
I hope u do find a nice, new love. U deserve it!
2006-10-29 17:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I have to ask: Why do you stay with this guy? It doesn't sound like he's even nice to you, never mind kind and loving. Do you get something out of this relationship? If it's just that you don't want to be alone, then you really need to find someone else.
You say you're shy, so maybe you figure you won't find anybody else if you cut him loose. Don't worry about that. There are plenty of nice guys who will take the time to get to know someone who is shy. It's no reason to be saddle with someone who can't be bothered.
2006-10-29 16:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by jaywalk57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's feeling like the enormous guy now he's had you. And which you're like his little woman so he can do what he desires to you presently. no person that loves you would be that merciless to you. I advise, you're no longer dashing to point out his faults, are you, because you care approximately him and dont prefer to harm him. i think of you could desire to comprehend that he would not sense that way approximately you. He for sure sees you as greater of a possession than a individual who's important to him. once you spoke approximately breaking apart, you have been attempting to make him be nicer to you, yet all he says is "okay" because of the fact he's conscious you wont do it. THIS, what you're dealing with now, is the clarification you could desire to attend till you relatively relatively understand somebody, and have seen their reactions to somewhat some circumstances, till now you supply them this plenty power over you. you could desire to nicely known you could have faith somebody till now you enable them to have something they are able to apply against you. hence, you're afraid he will bypass and tell all people which you're crap at giving head and you'd be ashamed in front of all people. So according to probability you shouldnt supply it out so relatively? If I have been you, i could wreck up with this guy, and tell all people that it relatively is by using the fact he's poor in mattress. Get there first. He merits it, he has been merciless to you. Then study to no longer be relatively common, next time.
2016-10-20 23:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to have a boyfriend like that.
he's either just really shy and doesn't know how to act in a relationship
or hes just an ***.
I'd move on and find someone who will treat you better. Wasting two months on someone and not getting any respect or physical contact...
you don't need that.
2006-10-29 16:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by hey there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a boyfriend. You have a person who doesn't care about you, doesn't like you, doesn't appreciate you and doesn't want to spend time with you....save your self respect and your time by dumping him and not talking to him again, tell him that you've decided just being friends is enough...especially since you're still so young!
2006-10-29 16:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He doesn't sound interested. Find someone more caring about your feelings. Who will treat you with respect. Let him be the one to do the approaching if this is how he is going to act.
2006-10-29 16:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's making up excuses. I had a bf who wasn't a phone person but I MADE him stay on the phone then he changed LOL! but just don't pay ANY attention to him for a while. Maybe he'll change his mind.
2006-10-29 16:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to move on and find someone worth spending your time on.
2006-10-29 16:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by Alessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just forget him and dump him. Go for another search, who'll be of ur taste.
2006-10-29 16:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt just acting wierd...he is wierd....move on to someone else and forget him.....
2006-10-29 16:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋