i've known this kid since kindergarten and he use to like me but i turned him down a few times and now he has a new girlfriend who hates me and told him not to talk to me and he's actually listening to her...
what do i do?
because now i've relized i like him...alot.
but he will barely look my way.
and i can't go a day without talking to him.
2006-10-29 16:18:59 · 6 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If his girlfriend is not letting him see u then she knows he has or had feelings for you and is jealous. But this doesn't mean you're completly out of the picture... no matter what he feels for you this girl isn't good for him if she's putting barriers on who he sees and who he doesn't. There is no trust. I let my gf hang out with her Ex because I know she loves me and won't do anythign with them... if she doesn't trust him enough to let him see whomeever he wants then the relationship is going to fail.
He isn't with her all the time. Once she's gone and has left the scene the spotlight can shine on you in the next scene... that scene where you go to see him without her knowing and it's there where you should try telling him how you feel and whats been going on with you. You have to tell im how you feel now because waiting for him to ask you out again can be a never especially if you turned him down so many times... he might think ure not interested... so go for it... u cant lose what you don't have so you can only gain.
2006-10-29 16:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by X Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are being a bit selfish and only wanting someone because you feel you can't have him now. I would wait and see what happens with him and his new girlfriend and just stay away. You can live without talking to him.
2006-10-30 00:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we realise da worth of a person wen he/she aint around us nemore. u cud've had da most amazing person in life, for its easy 2 find a person whom u like, but its not easy 2 find a person who likes u more den u like him. sounds confusing, but think bout it.
u didnt value him n now he;s gone n now ur regretting, but theres nuthn else u can do, cos even if u tell him ur feelings, he might feel dat ur just trying 2 play wid his mind. so instead of ruining ne last chances dat ur left wid, it'd be better if u WAIT, if dat guys meant for u...ur gonna be wid him 1 day or other, but if not, accept it dat u let something beautiful let go in ur life.
time shows da way if we got patience.
2006-10-30 01:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She looks at you as a threat to their relationship. That's too bad. He's your friend and shouldn't have to make a choice. If she's that shallow then he won't stick with her long. Don't worry. He'll always be your friend and he'll be back.
2006-10-30 00:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY how you feel. guys can be blinded because of their girlfriends, there is no real answer for this. someone looses either way. you just have to do what YOU THINK is right in your head and heart.
2006-10-30 00:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by princesss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ball is in his court..send him an email telling him how you feel and wait & see if he responds. if not, you know he doesn't feel the same. you may have lost out
2006-10-30 00:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by DEWEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋