Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

I am trying to write a letter to my boyfriend who I think could be cheating on me, or having an interest in the possiblity. I have found some things that I feel constitute this behaviour. We are currently living together and he always tells me he loves me. I don't want to sound like a ***** or insecure, I just want to know whats going on....any suggestions?

2006-10-29 15:53:59 · 15 answers · asked by chickypie 2 in Singles & Dating

I look for it almost every day.....the more extreme the better. Any people out there want to admit this as well?

2006-10-29 15:52:54 · 19 answers · asked by AL 2 in Singles & Dating

I want everyone to answer so I can add them all up and divide them by the number of answers, and then I'll post the average height of Yahoo Answers people (by man and woman).

2006-10-29 15:52:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are guys really too scared to call a girl up and ask her out?? wat up wid writing letters and all the he said she said crap? And what does a guy want in a girl?? what attracts them? is it just being skinny??

2006-10-29 15:51:54 · 10 answers · asked by gangsterfied_holly 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and some girlfriends were at a bar, and here walks in a common man, ok im an attractive female, im not being conceited but i have recieved many compliments for it and this man walks right next me without catching a glimpse. My friends and I try to make a scene which usually helps with the attention but nothing, i dont know what to do. I heard he has just moved to the area and comes to the bar regularly, I dont know if im being silly, but i have never walked up to a man they have always come to me, how should i handle this, and why cant i get over my fear.

2006-10-29 15:51:40 · 12 answers · asked by watermelonlvr 1 in Singles & Dating

on the weekend at a special function, i let him know that i love him yet he never ackowledges what i do for him and how i love him. I called him selfish and inhumane and he called me a drunk like my stepmother and that i ruined his night. The next day i called to apologized and he said that we have differnet perspecives and that in 3 years we have talked to each other a total of two weeks. He is work obsessed and i need to let him go. Please help and did i do the wrong thing by telling him how i felt even though the timing was really bad?

2006-10-29 15:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he only wants to spend time with me and not my family. Says my family always looks at him wierd bec he is Mexican (I'm white), but my fam is not prejudice, I think he is making this up as an excuse or just doesn't want to hang w/everyone...we have been togaether for 5 plus years...do not live togeather though...there have been the usual ups and downs of a family, fights etc but my family is accepting and welcoming to him. He will come over for a little while but then he leaves. Sometimes he says he will come and ends up not. I know he loves me but I don't get him. He also has a big family his own self and is like the caretaker of the whole family, they are all adults but he is the responsible one.Do you think this is normal or acceptable..what would you do?

2006-10-29 15:51:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-29 15:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a working class woman or a house wife?

2006-10-29 15:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he walk away from me so easily when we have a problem. why doesnt he try and compromise things. and why is it his way or not at all. thats not love. is it? what is he trying to prove and why does he lie and not do the things my way sometime. why is he always gawking at other women. these kind of things hurt. but he says he loves me and want to be with me. can someone help me understand his motives. i treat him very well and dont deserve to be done like this. and on top of that i noticed that he is extremely nice when we havent had sex in a while. what is going on here. plz be truthful even if it hurts. tell me what do you see from what i told you guys. thank you.

2006-10-29 15:50:39 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Be realistic

2006-10-29 15:50:33 · 13 answers · asked by ANyone but you 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I don't know if he really likes me or not. He's said that when he breaks up with his girlfriend he would date me, but he said this about 3 months ago, and still nothing. He comes to my work to see me and talk with me, and he calls me "his girl" (of course I always correct him and tell him I'm not). Does he only want to cheat on his girlfriend with me or does he really like me?

Honestly, I only attract guys with girlfriends. No joke.

2006-10-29 15:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is aimed at Christians but all are welcome.

Will you celebrate Halloween? If not, why? Because it is a Pagan holiday? (Yes, Pagan, not Satanic which is totally different) If so, did you know that almost all Christian holidays take their customs from Pagan holidays?

Valentine's Day- Imbolc, celebration of the virgin Goddess bride and the unbridled, pure love she has for the Sun God, give love letters to a crush.
Easter- Ostara, the defeat of Winter by the Sun God, his consumation with the Goddess, paint, hide and find eggs to symbolize fertility.
Halloween- Samhain (pronounced SAV-ayn), the New Year, out with the old, in with the new, jack-o-lanterns and costumes to scare away evil spirits, milk and cake (now candy) offerings to the spirits of ancestors left next to the front door.
The one I hate to bring up, Christmas- Yule, the longest night of the year. Presents are an accidental similarity, but the tree comes from a custom of praying on the Yule log to burn all night.

2006-10-29 15:49:22 · 5 answers · asked by Shel K 3 in Family

It must be unique and cheap.

2006-10-29 15:49:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Talking to my ex tonight she said she would be upset if there was someone else because we wouldn't be the same anymore. We still do the same things we did when we were together. Just don't say we are in a relationship anymore. I don't understand why she is like that. She broke up with me. So why would she find it so hard that I am with someone else. She is not interested in anyone. Trust me I know. I just don't see her point to having to know what I do all the time and who I am with. Why would she need to know everything? She just is so confusing with the things she says, and I really think I should just end all contact.

2006-10-29 15:48:57 · 20 answers · asked by john 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 15:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by Eileen S 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help me, I need to prove my love for my boyfriend any ideas??

I really dont wanna lose him. please help me please im dying inside

2006-10-29 15:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is a guy. We have been friends for about 8 years. We are both in college at separate schools. Recently, we have been hanging out much more often. He makes a point of going home on weekends that he knows I will be home as well. Usually I go over to his house, and we will hang out for hours and hours just talking about anything and everything. A few weeks ago, it was his birthday and he invited me over to celebrate with his parents. We also often sing together (that's what we are both very passionate about). I have always thought we were just friends, but the way he has been acting toward me lately is a little confusing. He made a big deal of telling me how much it meant to him that I spend his birthday with him, and he tells me that my music makes him want to cry it is so beautiful, and when we hug there is just something amazing about it, and he made a point of telling me that we should talk on the phone more often. There is so much more I could say....

2006-10-29 15:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mother and my biological father dated for seven years before they had me.Once my father found out my mother was pregnant he started making all these false accusations such as she was cheating on him and/or that he wasn't able to have kids.(This was a bunch of b.s. and after I was born the court proved him wrong.I was declared his child by paternity test).On the day I was born, my grandfather called his mother and told her the happy news-she swore at him and slammed the receiver down. Shortly after,my father came to the hospital with his mistress who had given birth to his son just a month before.He cried and acted like he cared but that was short lived.He came around a hand full of times (drunk so my grandfather had to kick him out) and then not at all.When I got older I started to wonder about him so I tried contacting him but his number was unlisted.I recently found out he passed away.I have tried to contact his family but they won't respond.I feel rejected and worthless.

2006-10-29 15:46:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-29 15:45:57 · 5 answers · asked by pollywollydoda 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help with a girl that i like and i am sure that she likes me. We always have a good time when we talk. And i have the sense that she likes me. What do I do?

2006-10-29 15:44:50 · 9 answers · asked by gng022091 1 in Singles & Dating

We dated for about two years in college, but we broke up OVER 5 years ago, and the last time I talked to him was 2 years ago.

But then I saw him at our mutual friend's wedding last weekend, and all of the sudden all my old feelings rushed back to me. I felt all the love and heartbreak all over again, as if it was just yesterday that we broke up. This came as a COMPLETE SURPRISE, because I have a boyfriend whom I thought I was totally in love with! And I thought I was completely over my ex!

What the heck? Is this normal??

2006-10-29 15:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by cajun m 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question, I'm just looking to see how deep in love people can honestly fell for someone.

So deep that you'd jump in front of a bullet for them .... Or just to the point where you'd yell duck.

2006-10-29 15:44:26 · 14 answers · asked by ill_state00 3 in Singles & Dating

ME AND MY BOYFRIEND IS GOING THRU PROBLEMS AT THIS TIME,AND WE BROKE UP ONE NIGHT,BUT WE GOT BACK 2GETHER THA SAME NIGHT IN 15-20 MIN'S B-CUZ ONE NIGHT I SEEN A CUTE BOY WALKING DOWN THA STREET AND I WUZ STARRING AT HIM IN FRONT OF MY BOYFRIEND AN I KNOW THAT HE IS VERY JELIOUS SO HE GOT MAD AN WE HAD AN ARGUMENT AN IT LEAD 2 US BRAKING UP,BUT THA SAME NIGHT HE 4GAVE ME AN WE GOT BACK 2GETHER.BUT IM VERY INSECURE AN I WANNA KNOW DO U THINK HE LUV ME LIK HE SAY HE DO???

2006-10-29 15:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by SEXY LUV!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 15:43:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some signs a guy will give off when he likes you?

2006-10-29 15:42:58 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 15:41:30 · 1 answers · asked by Visal G 1 in Singles & Dating

Two months ago, I met a guy at a party. We had a great first date a week after we met. Towards the end of our date, he asked if we were going to get together again. I said maybe because I didn't want to put myself out there. I think he was confused by that comment because he called me when he got home that night to ask if we were going out again. I said, "Sure, why do you ask?" He said he wasn't sure because I said "maybe".

We had a second date planned for last week but at the last minute I had to cancel it because of my family. I think he understood but was disappointed. We made plans for Thanksgiving weekend and he made a comment, "Wow, that's a long time to wait to see you."

We like each other but I'm so busy! Seriously, I don't want him to lose interest. I called him tonight to make a date for this Friday and he wants me to find something for us to do. How can I let this guy know that I'm still interested?

2006-10-29 15:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a cauliflower like wart on the shaft of my penis, I don't know how i got it or what exactly it is. I have had sex only once and it was with someone who was also a virgin. Is it possible i got it somewhere else that's not sex?

What do i have, how did i get it?

(i was the person he had sex with but i dont seem to have any problems so i think this is independent of me but im not sure)

what do u think?

2006-10-29 15:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by Sasha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he said he likes you and want you to be his girl, then he asked you out. you'r not interested (not playing hard to get) frankly and you politely told him but he insist on having you.( it's like a burden to you) even though there's no threat of rape. so what can you do to ward him off as his becoming so embarrassing?

2006-10-29 15:39:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating