he walk away from me so easily when we have a problem. why doesnt he try and compromise things. and why is it his way or not at all. thats not love. is it? what is he trying to prove and why does he lie and not do the things my way sometime. why is he always gawking at other women. these kind of things hurt. but he says he loves me and want to be with me. can someone help me understand his motives. i treat him very well and dont deserve to be done like this. and on top of that i noticed that he is extremely nice when we havent had sex in a while. what is going on here. plz be truthful even if it hurts. tell me what do you see from what i told you guys. thank you.
2006-10-29 15:50:39 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it hurts to be honest .. but coming from a man .. u r just sex to this guy .. lets go down the list .. he is nice to u when he is horny ..he lies .. he drools at other women and let u see him doing it .. he doesnt respect you enough to let u use your mind .. he dictates what u should do .. u r better off without this guy in your life .. there is an old song that says if it hurts to say his name then u better let go... and u should .
2006-10-29 15:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awe sweety he doesn't love you. I am so sorry that you are going through that. When you love a person you want to do what you can to make the other person happy. This may mean that you have to do things that you dont really want to do. Obviously he doesn't have that much respect for you if he stares at other girls. Not only should he not do it because it will make you mad he should be conscious of your feelings. It sound like this is a relationship of convenience for him. He is only nice to you when you haven't had sex in a while. That's crap!!! No woman deserves to be treated like that at all. You deserve someone better. I would say you need to tell him how you feel but it sounds like you probably already have. Sweety move on and find someone else worthy. Also, my mom always told me that no one can make you happy . It is up to you to make your self happy. Good luck sweety.
2006-10-29 16:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a kinda similar position to me and what i will tell you is what i need to learn myself. It seems that you have different ideas about how one another should be treated. When this conflicts, is when u feel hurt. At the end of the day love is a tangiable thing and does not have one definition...he might say he loves you but what type of love is it that u want and need and is he giving this to you.
There's nothing worse than loving someone that doesnt recipcate.
You can talk about the things that bother you and then see if he changes...and if not you will have to accept that you are different people so you can accept this or move on.
2006-10-29 15:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll assume both of you are young therefore kind of new to the love thang. There's no real motive except typically young guys think with there d.... not there minds. I hate to say this but if it's so easy for him to let go maybe it's time to do the same.
2006-10-29 15:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is staring at other women its plan to see he does not find you nice any more if you were my woman i wood treat you like the godess i tough you were when i first met you basicly you need to made him feel the way you are feeling tell him that you seen the lovely looking guy and you felt your heart beating faster then if he really loves you he will ravish you and that will be that if not drop him like a ton of bricks
2006-10-29 15:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by spooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he's your ex. That's good that he is because he does not respect you at all. A loving relationship is not suppose to be like that.
2006-10-29 15:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's either A. A royal asshole, or B he's scared, when guys get scared of a relationship or commitment they run away, and push the other person away.
2006-10-29 15:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and move on..he gonna do the same thing......dont trust him no more....
2006-10-29 15:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋