My mother and my biological father dated for seven years before they had me.Once my father found out my mother was pregnant he started making all these false accusations such as she was cheating on him and/or that he wasn't able to have kids.(This was a bunch of b.s. and after I was born the court proved him wrong.I was declared his child by paternity test).On the day I was born, my grandfather called his mother and told her the happy news-she swore at him and slammed the receiver down. Shortly after,my father came to the hospital with his mistress who had given birth to his son just a month before.He cried and acted like he cared but that was short lived.He came around a hand full of times (drunk so my grandfather had to kick him out) and then not at all.When I got older I started to wonder about him so I tried contacting him but his number was unlisted.I recently found out he passed away.I have tried to contact his family but they won't respond.I feel rejected and worthless.
2006-10-29 15:46:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why would you feel rejected and worthless, you had nothing to do with this you are just stuck in the centre of a tragic story. There is no way you can talk to him now so maybe say a prayer for his soul and let him go,
2006-10-29 15:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't do this to your self it is their lost I know you feel empty inside but really please don't let this stop you from reaching your goals. Be a proud individual where this family wish they had input on your life. Be has positive has you possibly can, make them hurt by being a success-full has possible you will feel better inside." Do you" has I say forget any one who don't want to be apart of your life. You may have a family one day and you want your children to love you be proud of being apart of you.
2006-10-29 15:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by shetterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not feel rejected and worthless by those people. It seems as if they are doing a favor by not responding to you. Don't hold your breath, but, over time they may have a change of mind and heart. In the meantime, love and take care of yourself.
2006-10-29 15:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them make you feel that way. You have family from your mother's side that want and love you from the way that you describe them. If they don't want to know you, then it's their loss, not yours. Go and live your life. Be happy. Don't let them bring you down.
2006-10-29 15:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY EX 'S FAMILY IS THE SAME WAY WITH MY SON .. (11 YEARS OLD ) MY EX HAS A 15 YEARS DAUGHTER THAT IS INVOLED IN HIS LIFE AND HIS FAMILY , BUT MY SON IS NOT WELCOME . SOME DAY HE CAN ASK WHY , I GUESS YOU NEED TO LOOK AT LIEK THIS ( IT'S THEIR LOSE)
2006-10-30 06:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray for them and live your life in peace.
2006-10-29 15:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋