Two months ago, I met a guy at a party. We had a great first date a week after we met. Towards the end of our date, he asked if we were going to get together again. I said maybe because I didn't want to put myself out there. I think he was confused by that comment because he called me when he got home that night to ask if we were going out again. I said, "Sure, why do you ask?" He said he wasn't sure because I said "maybe".
We had a second date planned for last week but at the last minute I had to cancel it because of my family. I think he understood but was disappointed. We made plans for Thanksgiving weekend and he made a comment, "Wow, that's a long time to wait to see you."
We like each other but I'm so busy! Seriously, I don't want him to lose interest. I called him tonight to make a date for this Friday and he wants me to find something for us to do. How can I let this guy know that I'm still interested?
2006-10-29
15:40:09
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I'm posting this again because I didn't mention that I am super afraid of getting hurt again. I know that sounds cliche but it's true. I've been in so many horrible relationships where guys have cheated, lied and were just downright mean. Outside of my father, I've never had a guy this genuine before in my life and I'm 28 (so is he). On some level, I know that he's not trying to run game and is genuinely interested. But my old instincts constantly creep up - hence the "maybe" comment and probably the reason behind me cancelling the last date.
2006-10-29
15:48:11 ·
update #1