on the weekend at a special function, i let him know that i love him yet he never ackowledges what i do for him and how i love him. I called him selfish and inhumane and he called me a drunk like my stepmother and that i ruined his night. The next day i called to apologized and he said that we have differnet perspecives and that in 3 years we have talked to each other a total of two weeks. He is work obsessed and i need to let him go. Please help and did i do the wrong thing by telling him how i felt even though the timing was really bad?
2006-10-29 15:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
<<<<<<< LET IT GO!!! >>>>>>
... I took the love of my life (my ex wife) back 6 times. I was in denial about how she really felt about me. She used me badly. Sounds like this person is already telling you to let go. You cant hold on to something that isn't there. The other person doesn't love you. Find someone who dose... that's what I did. Sure I still miss her (my ex wife) from time to time but I am much happier now. I found some one who will love me back. Love is a two way street. In order to keep it you have to give it. Just because you love someone dosen't mean that they love you back.
Good Luck.
2006-10-29 16:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Michael L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him go since he still does not acknowledge what you do for him. Actually, this is kind of what happened to me with my date. She said her ex-boyfriend just walked back into her life. Here is the story.
She is 22 and I am 24. Both of us are well educated. I have a stable job and she was still finding a job. Talked a bunch by emails and she was really nice girl and sweet. Went on a total of three dates. On the first two dates, she ended it early saying she was tired. Date #1 was walking around old town of a city and getting to know each other. The city was very nostalgic. Date #2, we went out and had a couple of drinks and took her to a secluded bench to have some really nice chocolate, felt kind of romantic I guess. After each date, I would walk her to her car and gave her a goodbye hug and never tried to kiss her. Date # 3, which was the last nite, we went to go see a movie. I started to like her a lot and had a great time. After the date, we walked out and I had mentioned to her that the moon was so beautiful tonite. Then she mentioned to me that she had an ex-boyfriend that was all of a sudden walking back into her life. It really hurt me!!!
I think you should let him go and there are plenty of other nice guys out there that will definitely appreciate what you do for them. That is all of the advice I can give you since I did not know why you broke up with him in the first place and how your relationship with him was. Hope this helps. Take care.
2006-10-29 16:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Pool Player 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off i commend you for expressing your feelings toward him, since it's hard for me to usually tell people how i feel. The thing is..even if you did the wrong thing what has happened already happened. I cannot answer if it was right or wrong, only you can. And once you have settled on an answer, take your regrets or emotions and move on. It already happened, and if you are disappointed, it's really only one point of a lifetime and there's no use in dwelling on something that is painful. Take care of yourself and manage your happiness.
2006-10-29 16:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Antigone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right think dont feel bad over his childish way he is the one who ought to have calledto say i am sorry for being a ***. in my opion?
2006-10-29 15:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say get over him already clearly he doesnt feel the way you do
2006-10-29 15:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋