We dated for about two years in college, but we broke up OVER 5 years ago, and the last time I talked to him was 2 years ago.
But then I saw him at our mutual friend's wedding last weekend, and all of the sudden all my old feelings rushed back to me. I felt all the love and heartbreak all over again, as if it was just yesterday that we broke up. This came as a COMPLETE SURPRISE, because I have a boyfriend whom I thought I was totally in love with! And I thought I was completely over my ex!
What the heck? Is this normal??
2006-10-29 15:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by cajun m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal for the feelings to rush back like that. It doesn't mean you love your boyfriend any less. You're just still hurt from the break-up. Sounds like there wasn't really any closure. It's not that you're not over him necessarily, but you may have some unresolved issues. If you got over it once, you can do it again. You seem to be over him but not the break-up. Just try to let it slip out of your mind, or if there are any unresolved issues, try to work them out. Soon you'll be back to the way you were before last weekend.
2006-10-29 15:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somtimes meeting up with old Flames again brings back that tingle in your stomache! I know when I see my exes I get that weird feeling, honestly there's nothing wrong with it! Youre human and it's only natural but I dont think this has anything to do with you loving or not loving your boyfriend. Think of it as just somebody new to look foward to everyday!
2006-10-29 15:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will try and help you first remember the reason you split up in the first place second then say to yourself is it worth going over old ground third go to your new boyfreind and have a great night of passion and get back to being the way you were before you went to the wedding it really is not worth the heart ace trust me
2006-10-29 15:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by spooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You not normal to date the ex for a second time around.
Ron White has a saying "You just can't fix stupid".
2006-10-29 15:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the pat lay as it the past.5. years is a while and he is your past you have feelings for him but what are his real feelings think on this matter. my opion?
2006-10-29 15:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go back out with him again
2006-10-29 15:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by Valerena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can never forget or get over your first love.
it just doesn't happen.
2006-10-29 16:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by SideKick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋