My best friend is a guy. We have been friends for about 8 years. We are both in college at separate schools. Recently, we have been hanging out much more often. He makes a point of going home on weekends that he knows I will be home as well. Usually I go over to his house, and we will hang out for hours and hours just talking about anything and everything. A few weeks ago, it was his birthday and he invited me over to celebrate with his parents. We also often sing together (that's what we are both very passionate about). I have always thought we were just friends, but the way he has been acting toward me lately is a little confusing. He made a big deal of telling me how much it meant to him that I spend his birthday with him, and he tells me that my music makes him want to cry it is so beautiful, and when we hug there is just something amazing about it, and he made a point of telling me that we should talk on the phone more often. There is so much more I could say....
2006-10-29 15:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is he maybe hoping that we will be more than friends? what does it all mean?
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there is so much more to this situation, and I am just confused.
2006-10-29 15:48:22 · update #1
He has known you for 8 years. All the attempts he has made with other people does not come close to what he feels for you. He believes that you know him better than anyone else and that the feeling is mutual. Even if he meets someone at college, it would be many years before it could come close to what he has with you. It could be that he feels that moving on with other women would be more of a waste of time than to continue on with you.
In short, he loves you and he has been dropping the hints to find out if you would be interested in taking the relationship to the next level.
2006-10-29 15:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you both like each other and I think neither one of you is confident just to take it to the next level. What do you talk about for hours anyway... me I would just say hey sweetie we seem to be together allot lately looks to me like we are more than friends here so maybe we should like the cook says take it up a notch... get serious we are not getting younger you know... and see what happens after... at least it's on the table and the both of you will leave there knowing instead of wondering... Good Luck!
2006-10-29 16:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm reveling in his inner pain of not having the guts to tell you how he feels. I'm there right now with a great friend of mine and I can't work up the courage to let it out.
The obvious reason is that he's worried about how you'll feel toward him and that it'll end the friendship. I say you drag it out of him, then crush his hopes to see if he cries. If so, then you couldn't date a crier anyway. If he doesn't, then you can tell him you're kidding and sing your way into the sunset.
2006-10-29 15:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to im you cause I need more data here but lets try this. Have you known any of his past relationships if any? What happened? Try to compare his past behavior with the current. Has anything happened to him lately? Could it be maybe that being in college alone has made him apreciate his friendship with you more? Is he perhaps gay? (no offense intended)
I apologize for answering with more questions. My best advice would be to stratight out talk to him about and find out what the deal is, that's just my style.
im me ttepinzon if you would like to talk more about it
2006-10-29 15:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by ttepinzon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you adult men have been acquaintances for 8 years,that sounds like an incredible beginning place for a relationship. It sounds prefer to me he desires to tutor it up a notch. in case you do no longer prefer to or don't sense a similar, you 2 would desire to take a seat at the same time someplace quiet & have a coronary heart to coronary heart communicate approximately your friendship/relationship.he will take exhilaration on your honesty interior the long-term,no rely what the end results of the communique is!
2016-10-20 23:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really loves you, go ahead and welcome him. it is old saying, "1st step in love is friendship". If he is ur best friend then i'm sure he'll be able to make u happy. Another interesting you guys have been hanging out since 8 years, so you know each other very well. no need to be confuse.
Best of luck
2006-10-29 15:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Waleed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be more than friends.
2006-10-29 16:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him,date him.If not,tell him so,so he's knows to back off.
2006-10-29 15:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he is trying to tell you he cares for you . my opion?
2006-10-29 16:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋