Is it wrong to like a good hair pulling and spanking during sex? Am I normal or some kind of freak?

Answer 1

Some people have a direct link between the serophin in their brains that releases extra amounts of the "pleasure" hormones during painful things like the sting of a paddle, or hand, or whatever... In some cases, and I know this sounds weird but oddly enough is true, kids, that were raised in abusive homes, tend to have a higher tolerance for pain and because it went on for most of their lives, it becomes something that they hated, to something that they include in everyday life, including their sex lives. I'm not saying that everyone who has been abused goes in this direction, but a good portion do!

Answer 2

It's never wrong to like whatever it is that turns you on (whether it be hair pulling, spanking, etc.). It doesn't mean that you are normal, but it doesn't mean that you're some kind of freak.

Everyone has something different that others would not consider "normal". So don't worry and just enjoy. If you would like to discuss more feel free to write.

Answer 3

theres nothing wrong with that, I enjoy the same things on occasion.
You arent a freak, In my opinion the pleasure contrasts with the pain and takes your mind off of the pleasure for a split second which makes for better orgasms. So you aren't that freaky, Ive actually seen some out there stuff that people like when it comes to sex, and besides there is no such thing as normal everyone has little things about them that are different, or unique, or obscure. I dont believe in being society's idea of normal, it just makes you unique,

Answer 4

No, you're not a freak, just a little bit kinky. And kinky is fine and a lot of fun. Lots of women love to be erotically spanked and have their hair pulled - which is just as well for guys like me who love to spank them.

So go ahead and enjoy yourself. You'll probably have a lot more fun and be a much happier person than those who insist on being 'normal'.

Answer 5

There's nothing wrong with that if that's what you like. Just because it's not what some people would call the "normal" thing to do doesn't make you a freak.

Answer 6

Spanking might be OK as long as you don't end up with big, red welts on your *** or where ever....but hair pulling?! OUCH!! Everyone's hair falls out every day, is he like pulling it in in strands or clumps?! If you want to end up having to buy Rogaine for women when you hit menopause, be my guest, but I wouldn't want anyone pulling my hair!!! EVER!!! I don't know if that's normal. Sounds like you want some one to hurt you during sex, like S&M. If that's what you're into, go for it. Call it whatever you like. It isn't my thing!! I like it when they talk dirty to you...No one gets hurt doing that as long as you don't say the wrong thing!! LOL

Answer 7

nothing wrong with a bit of fun. as for if you're a perv, well, how hard is the pulling and the spanking? if you're losing hair and you can't sit down, maybe you're a bit perverted. However, why care what others think? find someone who'll give it to you how you like it and go to

Answer 8

no its not wrong and if that's what turns you on, go for it. if someone is turned off by that and thinks that your a freak for it move on to someone that's into that as well.. don't change what you like because another doesn't like it. that's their problem..

Answer 9

No, there is nothing wrong with it, I think that you are normal. I ecspecially love to have my a** smacked during sex.

Answer 10

What you do is your business, don't ask peoples opinion because it doesn't matter. I say unless you like getting punched and cut with knives or something like that then yeah, you're crazy, but not what you mentioned.