im a mother of 3 children. And once a month i like to have a girls night out.Is that wrong?
2006-10-29 16:50:36 · 35 answers · asked by twisted 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no way. Just because you are a mother doesnt mean you cant have fun. Tell the hubby to look after the kids. lol if i were you i would be making it weekly.
2006-10-29 16:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who says it's wrong? It's your life, live it how you want! Even 70 year old women get together and sew lol (or whatever they do). As long as someone responsible is taking care of your kids, go have fun! Life is short, enjoy it!
and dont listen to the dork that said "Doing so neglects your motherly duties". Just because you had kids means your life is over? If you're going out every night of the week and your kids forget who you are then its too much. Once a month or even once a week is fine.
2006-10-29 16:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by tipigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong. It is good for you and your children. IT gives you a much needed break from raising them, and it teaches your children the value of friendship. I would try to have one every week or a couple of times a month at least. If the bills are paid, and your children are properly being cared for, then you are being a WONDERFUL mother by giving yourself a time out. I mean homestly how many times can we hear the wiggles sing, or the doodlebops, or dora having our children scream at the tv before we snap???
2006-10-29 17:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all, it is a good and healthy thing to have adult time, catch up with the girls and enjoy girl time. Until seven years ago, my girlfriends and I some married some not, made time at least once maybe twice a year to have a pajama party at one of our houses. I moved 2hours away, so it is now more difficult more me to attend. And we would have girls nights at least every other month. I think it is really healthy, can not be around the children all of the time, and not always just around men. Girls need their time just as men need their time. Good for you, and I am a little jealous! I miss my girl time. God bless
2006-10-29 16:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOO whoever is putting that in you head is just either way too religious too old fashioned or just plain jealous unless you leave your children home alone .. or you spend or the shopping money on gambling..lol thats wrong but gosh a persons gotta have fun and get out away from home and kids once in a while in order to keep their sanity..lol
2006-10-29 16:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am 28 and every month I go out with my friends. Who ever is making you feel like this needs to back off!! A woman who is raising 3 children deserves a night to herself. Don't feel bad, as long as your children are taken care of and they know you love them with all your heart that is all that matters! Go ENJOY YOURSELF!!
2006-10-29 17:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by sarbopey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not wrong. It is very important that you socialize with people and continue to make friends. You don't want to end up being a middle-aged adult with not friends to rely on. Your kids will be fine with a babysitter. My parents used to go out every Friday and Saturday night while I was growing up and I turned out fine.
2006-10-29 16:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by arbolito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! I'm a mother of 4 and I look forward to those nights out with my pals! Makes you a better parent, when you can break loose once in awhile. Go out and have some fun, you owe it to yourself.
2006-10-29 16:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all, if you have a trusted person to take care of the children, while you're out with friends, or whoever.
2006-10-29 16:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!!! I'm 29 also and I go out with friends, too!!! You have to have a break once in awhile, right?! If your husband, boyfriend, mother, sister, father, whoever can watch them-go for it!!!
Mom's need a break too!!!!! =)
2006-10-29 16:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not as long as your not trying to pick up men .Both male and females need time for themselves a hobby or go see a movie join a class or group of some kind it is healthy for you and your relationship as long as it is moral .Have a nice day .
2006-10-29 16:58:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋