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she kissed another guy while drunk at a party. before me they had a past. she says it was a drunken mistake and that it will never happen again....that im the only one for her.....i dont think that there is any excuse....am i wrong?

2006-10-29 16:57:17 · 29 answers · asked by how it feels 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

29 answers

If you care about her, give her another chance. If she doesn't mean anything to you, then don't. We all make stupid mistakes in life.

2006-10-29 16:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I am not going to say you are wrong in feeling upset. Yes, do forgive her. People do a lot of crazy stuff when drunk. Just stay close to her next time both of you go to a party again since she seems to loose it when drinking too much.
Don't act like you are the police with her during the party but be nice about it when she becomes too happy and re-direct her towards talking to you or ask a female friend of hers to step in to re- direct her attention to other friends and you.

2006-10-30 01:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by OXOX_4_U_Dhurba_n_Nepal 2 · 0 0

Well when you are drunk or intoxicated most will do things that they normally would not do. However, if she is drinking this much i would be more concerned with her drinking. may be it is becoming a issue a problem. If she came to you and told you about it and she said she is sorry, I would let it go, it probably was a mistake. No her drinking was not an excuse, however a reasonable explanation. Good luck and God bless

2006-10-30 01:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

Does she make a habit of getting drunk? If so, then you can't ever trust her behavior when she is in that state. One time a kiss....what about the next?

If you have known her for a long time and this is the first time that she has acted like this, you could give her the benefit of the doubt once..........but watch it.

I would be more inclined to take a walk - in the other direction.

2006-10-30 01:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0 0

Give her the benefit of the doubts this time around. It is a drunken mistake. Tell her that this should be the first and last such case and in future she will be sorry if it ever happens again.

2006-10-30 01:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Madinahbi Binti Abdul Hamid AHM 2 · 0 0

Dude, sorry to tell ya but alcohol is not an excuse. It just breaks down those walls in your head and allows you to do what you really want. As opposed to when your sober, then the walls are still there, so she stops herself from doing what she really wants to do.

Basically she wants to act on those impulses and couldn't help herself when she was drunk. Alcohol or not she wants him. Dump her and move on. You give her a second chance and she'll do it again. But you have to make the choice for yourself man, best of luck

2006-10-30 01:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0 0

I don't know even if she was drunk she must have known somewhat what she was doing the only reason she apologized was you caught her maybe their was other times she did this when you was not around if this really hurt you I would say see ya and find a honest decent women and let her go back to the other guy it appears she may still have feelings for.

2006-10-30 01:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0 0

NO... she probably knew exactly what she was doing and will do it again in a moment and she will have another excuse just as pathetic. Drinking relaxes inhibitions, this just means she would like to kiss and **** other guys. Don't be a sucker, dump her and let her be a tramp somewhere else.

2006-10-30 01:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0 0

man if u go back to her u will be makin a mistake only if u are screwin her then thats a different story but she gone kiss again or even go further next time i say u blow her off by catchin u cheatin cuz that will make her think about kissin a guy next shes in a relationship

2006-10-30 01:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by than3aimi 1 · 0 0

for me, i always know that what i'm doing no matter how drunk i'm. it proves to be correct when the person that she kissed is someone that she used to like. you choose it yourself, if you can forget this totally and dont bring it up again, then forgive her. but if you cant then you should let go. it really depends on the trust and how deep the love between you and her. good luck.

2006-10-30 01:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Princess is here 2 · 0 0

well if u really love her then u well do anything for her and trust her again and is she loves u too she well never do it again but if you dont think u can trust her again it's not like she slept with the other guy a kiss is nothing so yes forgive her and go on with your life

2006-10-30 01:03:48 · answer #11 · answered by melissa_werner2002 1 · 0 0

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