ok so i have been talking to this guy for almost a year...we have never actually been together but we "loved" each other and what not...so on friday night we hung out and we went to his house and went in the hot tub and things got a little crazy and we started making out and then things got sexual but NOT sex!! i am young by the way lol!! well anyways this is the first time we have ever done anything like this and i am afraid that now tomorrow wen i see him we will get into a fight about it he wont want to be in a relationship even though this happened....so what do i tell him if he says that??
2006-10-29 16:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by caliprincess555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok we arent going to fight about having sex we are going to fight about wether we should be together or just be friend or nothing at all....
2006-10-29 17:04:24 · update #1
There may be some mis-communication here. Just because things "got sexual" doesn't automatically mean there is going to be a relationship or that he wants there to be a relationship. I think that is one situation that guys think completely different about than girls. If you press him to define the "relationship" now he may feel pressured and run. Just take it for what it was. An enjoyable time for both of you and see how the relationship develops from here. Do not assume that you are a couple just because of the activities you engaged in. If you feel like you should be a couple to enjoy each other in such a manner, then by all means, wait until you are an official couple next time.
2006-10-29 17:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are worried you will get into a fight because you DIDN'T do anything??? WTF?? Who cares? If he is the type that gets pissed cause he didn't get any action for the little guy then throw him some babyoil and tell him to get the little guy some motion and move on! Don't do a damn thing till YOU are ready! Let him say whatever he wants! Don't fall into the trap that you have to do something. Kissing is kissing but the other causes you to have a baby! Are you ready to be baby with a baby?? Think about it before you do that!
2006-10-29 17:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't nag him or don't show that you are too anxious for him, coz most likely that will scare him off. lesson learned---
it is really important not too rush things. if ever he does not want to have a relationship with you, then so be it. as you said, you are young. but being young is not an excuse to do things like that. if that happens, be careful and be cautious next time. just take your time.
2006-10-29 17:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by frandonn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
says what exactly? that he dont wanna get into a relationship? then tell him what u really feel..
i doubt u feel anything real with him, cuz ur most probably bored and he came along and the chemistry was there....and the rest was history..
2006-10-29 17:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by LadyN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he waits, the probability of flipping a coin and getting a head increases from a half to a whole.
........wink, wink...... nudge, nudge........
2006-10-29 17:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by master_betty_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I dont get it.. fight about what ?? If you mean he wants sex and you are not ready ?? tell him to take a hike !!! he has NO rights to YOUR body !!!!!!!!! NONE !!!! it is YOURS !!!!!!!! God bless
2006-10-29 17:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋