i'm the kind of girl who is always surrounded by guys. got alot of guyz fren, so we hang out together most of the time, chilling out and have a couple of wine, clubbing, sometimes even got drunk. of course, that's the furthest i go, i know my limit and will adhere to my principles. but can you guys accept me as a gf. well, people know that i got a good personality, gentle and sweet. but can you tolerate my style? or will you try to change me?
2006-10-29 16:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by Princess is here 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you meet the right guy. I believe the question is no longer on whether the guy will change you but probably on how long you will continue that kind of lifestyle. Chilling out at clubs, drinking and getting drunk can be enjoyable at times but i'm sure you will realise that you won't see yourself doing this forever.
Since you are aware of your limits and will not do anything rash, instead of worrying whether it will be a problem or not, just relax and enjoy yourself. When the right guy appears, you will unknowingly change for the better.
2006-10-29 17:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally if I like someone, I won't try to change her habits coz I believe that I believe that everybody have their own style of living. There is no point to force somebody to change for the sake of yourself coz by doing so the other party may feel stressful being together with you
2006-10-30 09:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I wouldn't go out with you. I'm not being nasty at all. I just don't agree with your lifestyle. I have no power to change you, only you can change you. So I wouldn't try.
Trust me, clubbing and drunkenness only lead to trouble, eventually someone will take advantage of you. So I would suggest that you get out of it, and see which of those friends will stay with you, they will be your real friends. the others were either freeloading or just waiting for the opportunity to go further with you.
PS: how old are you?
2006-10-30 01:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by empangeniguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with hanging out, but you should always
demand respect and kindness from your mate. If they do not display this common trait..then drop them like a hot potato.
I do think you are putting yourself at risk hanging out with a group of boys and partaking of alcohol too..you never know what you are drinking....Please be careful...
2006-10-30 01:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rick D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't want lots of other guys hangin around their girl. If you feel the need to always be around those guys and not your bf, then there definitely is something wrong. I wouldn't try and change you, but maybe you're not just ready yet to settle for one guy.
2006-10-30 01:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well princess,i see where u coming from,but the thing is,when we get involve in relationships,there are somethings that are for single life and not for relationships,its nothing to do with changing who u are.Supposing it was the other way around,women always complain of guys always wanting to hang out with their male friends without them being present,a lifestyle he was accustomed to when u were not with him...should he go to the bar and hang out with the guys all the time?now that he is with u?
2006-10-30 01:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by PJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it men are territorial....includes their women....a man can have a woman like that but they are so extremely rare some actually believe that particular sub-species to be non- existent extinct
2006-10-30 01:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try to change you. If I fell in love with then its the you I met that i fell in love with. If I tried to change you then yoou would no longer be that person
2006-10-30 00:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like ur great fun, but it would be harder to be with a girl who's surrounded by potential bf's.
2006-10-30 01:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone when you least expect it. Just chill and let it happen.
2006-10-30 00:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. PhD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋