Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

and I'm not talking about extremes...

2006-10-27 18:11:17 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm pretty sure the guy is somewhat interested. i know he's not asking me out because he's not sure how i feel. i don't want him to know i like him but i want him to ask me out. how to go about it?

2006-10-27 18:10:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl friend told me that her bf (she's 28, he's 30) is upset with her because she started another job. She tends to have a lot of jobs but she's almost always working. She just doesn't stay for long. A year here, 6 months there. But she always gets another job right away or before she leaves the first one. Her bf is upset about it and now she's upset. Should this matter to a guy?

2006-10-27 18:09:48 · 14 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 18:09:47 · 10 answers · asked by Renee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay as i said in the last question i really care for this girl but her current b/f is a total ***! he treats her like sh** and i cant just sit back and watch, we have been friends for a lil over 2 years and she would call for everything, when she needed someone to talk to she called me not her boyfriend, all times of the night 1,2,3 in the morning crying because he hurt her and i was there but she stays with him and i care alot about her and would do anything for her. i was the person on valentines day that went and bought her 2dozen roses and he got her nothing. she says she stays with him to make it work but it never does. but heres the funny thing whenever i meet another girl and start talkin to her she gets jealous. so i know she cares for me but she still stays with him... i really do care about here and i know more about her than her own b/f... im sick of feeling this way and i need some advice. like i said i care deeply for her and i just want to show her how it is to be loved!

2006-10-27 18:09:05 · 3 answers · asked by thatonefoolinthe_831 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 18:09:01 · 15 answers · asked by olin1963 6 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i broke up tonight and i cant stop crying, im in real bad shape. help?! how to heal a broken heart...

2006-10-27 18:08:30 · 16 answers · asked by Becky 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband babysit another family members kids nearly everyday.I love them and all but their mom will ask us to babysit so she can go places and says she doesn't know when she'll be back.when I ask her to watch mine she sets us on a time limit to be back.It fustrates me because I don't think it's very fair.My husband watches her kids regardless cuz their his neice & newphew and it's the right thing to do.I think we could watch them on our time not hers.But he doesn't want to start a family riot and doesn't bother him.How do I go about this issue without making my husband & his family mad at me? Because me & my husband don't get to go out just the two of us without our kids.But we watch her kids for her & her friends to go out every other nite.

2006-10-27 18:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by jentoxic06 1 in Family

it's depressing when i think about it. i'm attractive, slender, smart, have a very good job, i'm nice, yada yada yada, yet i've never had a boyfriend. as a teen i was shy. as an adult i've been on many dates but i've never dated a guy wherein we call each other girlfriend or boyfriend. i've never introduced a man to my parents or friends b/c i've never dated anyone long enough to do that? i assume it's because i keep picking the wrong guy. seriously, i don't know what's up with me. by the way, because i've never dated anyone, i've never told a guy that i love him.

2006-10-27 18:07:21 · 22 answers · asked by ca belle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's my friend, and I've had immense feelings for him since last year. Everyone thinks we should be together. I totally thought he liked me. I mean, he always makes comments on how smart I am and how cool my sport is, and he shyly catches my eye. So I was heartbroken when his friend told me that he likes my best friend. She doesn't even like him that way, and she feels really bad about the whole situation. He still acts as if he likes me, too, though. Do I have hope?

Note: he took us out to dinner recently and paid for everything.

2006-10-27 18:07:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 18:05:26 · 6 answers · asked by hadibaab 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why would you stand by a man if hes in prison for a long time . offers no support and is just useing you ?

2006-10-27 18:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by james w 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 18:04:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is long, i wanted to give all the facts. My flatmate started seeing this girl a year ago, they met in Sydney, Aus, she is german, after being 2gether for approx 3 weeks she had to return to Germany to finish her degree (surgical intern) then she returned to Aus for 3 months & had to return to Germany cause she couldnt get a job, unfortunately she can not come back to Aus until she has had 2 years working experience in Germany. She may be able to get a job in Brisbane or Melbourne which is what they are waiting to hear about now, My flatmate cant go to Germany as he is waiting on his residency in Australia & the fact that he does really like Germany. Does he wait for her, he is loyal, they R very sweet together & really want to be 2gether, he will be heading home (England) in April 2008 so he can visit Germany then but should he be waiting all this time? What are your thoughts?

2006-10-27 18:04:21 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 18:03:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so for more info, look at my last question. Summed up, I am a nice guy, average looking, but am really shy and don't like going out. I am a geek and like video games, board games, anime, ect. so I asked why do I get passed up? now that being said i was told to find girls who have the same interests and such. well where would you find them? if they are social recluses and like to stay home, where would one find girls like that? things like personals don't work you never have anyone write you, so any ideas? Thanks:D

2006-10-27 18:03:39 · 4 answers · asked by daggermouth 3 in Singles & Dating

The Basics: I've been with this guy for almost three years. I've been 100% faithful, he has not. There's always another girl popping up here and there...on top of that, he's broken up with me so often, yet now I am the one getting fed up. I am not here bec. of love, I'm here bec. it seems "easier" to stay than to face things alone...I want to walk away. I just don't know when I'm going to (if I ever will) get fed up. I know the stuff he pulls isn't ok, yet I can't make myself leave. I've cried too much, been lied to more times than I can count...I wanna get out. I just feel so scared. I know I am attractive and that I deserve the best. Everyone deserves the best. I don't want to hurt anyone...Any comments/ideas?

2006-10-27 18:03:38 · 16 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at my friends sons birthday party and had my 7 yr old son with me. I knew that my cousins husband would be there, and he and I do not get along at all. but it had been about 2 years since we've spoke so i thought we could just ignore each other and it would be fine. the night was going good until i heard this man screaming at a child in the other room. screaming isnt even the word. it was a total loss of control! I thought at first that he was yelling at his own kids for he yells at them like this all the time and it breaks my heart. Then my son came to me crying and scared to death. You could see the fear and shock in his eyes. My son was the one the man was yelling at. My husband and I do not talk to our children like this. I got my kids and left. then called to the house and told the man that he had no right to talk to my child like that. He basically shunned me and hung up. What would you do in this situation? He didnt touch my son. but he did scare him. I am so mad!!!!

2006-10-27 18:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by JR 2 in Family

after 4yrs coz my man wont stop googling at porn every single second spare he gets he looks at it, im ok with porn in reasonable doses but this is WAY outta control. he even admits it himself but hez hooked. its starting to affect my self image and im turning off him coz of it,. HELP!!! (until a week ago we had a great sex life but now im hurt and angry)

2006-10-27 18:02:44 · 10 answers · asked by genieejj 3 in Singles & Dating

how did that happen? who did that? how did you deal with that?
i know you might just wanna forget about it but plz share your memory and opinions here with us for those who are being bullied right now.

2006-10-27 18:02:41 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Friends

I went out with this guy for 3.5 years, and we haven't talked in months (his choice), and now he accepted my friend request over MySpace, and now I don't want to blow it. I sent him a message asking him why he wants to be friends now of all times. He signed up for the Navy and leaves in April for boot. How do I not push him away? I feel like this might be my last chance with him. I would move with him away on that big boat in a heartbeat ...

2006-10-27 18:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by crazypantsmcgee69 2 in Singles & Dating

well my parents got a divorce about 4 years ago... and ever since then she has been drinking ALOT! when my parents were together she never drank at all.... so when they broke up she sid she felt "free" and that she wanted to have fun (she left him) but shes gone alittle bit to far... she never has anymoney, she has to borrow money off of me and my sister, not to mention me and my sister are just getting by with the little money we have. although my mom still goes to work she is always drunk after work everyday... she only calls me when shes drunk or when she needs money.. what should I do?

2006-10-27 18:02:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-27 18:01:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, I am going to a concert with my date, any ideas how to be intriguing and hold his attention, still feeling nervous even after the first date. Can someone help me?=-(

2006-10-27 18:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard an opinion that it's possible for women to get mad if the guy she thinks cute or she likes doesn't ask her out.
- Is this true?

On a little reflection, it does make sense because being asked out by a guy does boost a women's self-confidence.

2006-10-27 17:59:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been dating my bf for 24 days now but i seem to like his friend and his friend likes me. His friend told me if i were to break up with my bf then like 2 weeks after he would go out with me. What should i do? i like my bf's friend i think better than i like my bf. And me and his friend act more like were dating than me and my bf dose. and we're not cheating and I don't want to cheat.

2006-10-27 17:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by kcheergirl123 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious !!

2006-10-27 17:58:15 · 5 answers · asked by babes_mate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And know that the person you fell in love with wasn't the one you were supposed to spend the rest of your life with?

2006-10-27 17:58:15 · 13 answers · asked by jaded 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi I'm 16 and I'm really shy were are talking like I can't sing in front of my mom shy. I get homeschooled and ALOT of people think tha people who get homeschooled don't know how to interact with others but I do but because I'm shy people telling me that makes it worse.I'm in a dance team and the girls are really hyper and loud well I can do that at home but I think I am anoying sometimes so I think that if I act that way in front of them they may think I'm anoying. And I get really scared well nervous if you will at pratice I think I'm not very good and the others are better then me.I really want to be an actress but people just are like whatever and tell me I should be something else because I'm so shy they don't think I can do it I think. I really feel stupid asking for advice on this but any advice well be greatly welcomed.

2006-10-27 17:57:19 · 4 answers · asked by Elizabeth H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sometimes, i'm so tired of everything, that i just yell....and i lose my patience and become so immature. How can i hold it together and be patient? Do i run out of the room and scream in a pillow? count to 10?... anybody know a surefire way to help!?

2006-10-27 17:57:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family