i have been dating my bf for 24 days now but i seem to like his friend and his friend likes me. His friend told me if i were to break up with my bf then like 2 weeks after he would go out with me. What should i do? i like my bf's friend i think better than i like my bf. And me and his friend act more like were dating than me and my bf dose. and we're not cheating and I don't want to cheat.
2006-10-27 17:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by kcheergirl123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let your bf go, Honey. You're already cheating on him in your mind & you like his friend better anyway. He's going to be angry with both of you & you will come between the 2 of them as friends. Be careful how you pursue a relationship with his friend. The 2 of you need to try not to hurt him.
2006-10-27 18:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crazy fingers is right and should get the points!! first, get out of your relationship...and second, why would you want a man that covets his friends girl.....that is a huge breaking of man rules...you never date/mess with a friends girl (since it is only 24 day relationship, i wont say never since he and her do not really have a history) that has slept with her or has said i love you....and since none of this has happened yet...you say, what is the problem then??? well, 2 weeks after they break up isnt enough time to pull this kind of business....a real friend would first wait like 6 months, and then ask the friend if it is ok....actually, a real friend would prolly just find another girl as there are tons out there...but if there is some kinda chemistry b/w you two..then go for it, but wait til there is some time between you two
2006-10-27 18:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by derek s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u have to do is talk to u bf and see if maybe u guys can plan a day to hang out or something.if he doesnt show up maybe try it again.after the second time of him not showing up u should break up with him because u shouldnt have to date someone who acts more like ur friend and dont show up to hang out with u.maybe take some thought in about his friend, cause it it might make ur bf mad at u and at his best friend.
2006-10-27 18:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with your boy friend. But, if you decide to
go with his friend, he will figure it out and ther will be tentions
between the three of you. Not a good idea.
Think about it. If the shoe was on the other foot, and he broke up
with you and say a month later started going out with a girl friend
of yours, how would you feel? Better yet, how would you react?
2006-10-27 18:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell ur bf break up with him its better to go out with the guy u like better less temptation to cheat
2006-10-27 18:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it's kinda shady that you even agreed to date your boyfriend if you knew you liked his friend. But now that you two are together...you need to be a lady...and before this goes too far...break it off with your man if you are going to get with his friend....but I don't suggest it....the friend could be playing you out.
2006-10-27 18:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Fee4Lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say to let ur guy know that its not working out between you 2 and break up with him. its not good to b w/t some1 who u dont wana b w/t. now bout his friend u could giv him a chance but 1st make sure it wont affect their relationship.
2006-10-27 18:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should tell your boyfriend that his friend is hitting on you. And your boyfriend's friend is not trust worthy. What kind of friend back stab his friend. That is a NO NO. Shame on you also don't you feel bad for you boyfriend.
2006-10-27 18:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by crazy fingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with your bf. no point of staying around if you don't like him.
2006-10-27 18:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24 days is nothing.... and guys bounce back way easier than you think...on the outside...be happy
2006-10-27 18:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋