Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

DCF = Dept. of Children & Families
CPS = Child Protective Services

2006-10-25 06:22:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 100% straight, i have dressed up in heals and garters to masturbate and used a vibrator, i did oral with it and anal?

i really liked it, i am not gay and nor do i ever wish to be with a man, i actually find it repolsive.

i even made a make shift man using my clothes to stuff it and put the vibrator where the penis would go and really spent an hour having sex with it. i am not interested in having sex with a man i must repeat, i have a wife and she does not know, i don't even have the thought of having here play with me that way?

i wonder what all this means?

i am a totally different person when dressed up like that and having sex with a makeshift man? i even put lipstick? high heals and an underwear exposing only my butt?

when i jump up and down on that vibrator and put my hands on the makeshift mans shirt i am in lala land! i love it but actually doing it with a real man disgusts me!

2006-10-25 06:22:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering...how you could divorce someone that never cheated, tried to keep peace, and was liked by everyone.

2006-10-25 06:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.

My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.

I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and kiss me.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me Is it okay for them to kiss me in a FATHER DAUGHTER WAY ONLY on the cheek and calling me dad? My wife says she's happy when they kiss me and treat me like a dad

2006-10-25 06:21:27 · 21 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been single for quite some time and it's hard to get back out there especially when your a mom. Any good ideas out there and where are all the good men living nowadays anyhow?

2006-10-25 06:21:18 · 11 answers · asked by Cool Callie 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 10 months but we still see each other regularly. About a month ago she told me that she loved me still, and I have always let her know that I love her also. Recently I found out that she is seeing some other guy who I don't even know, and is lying to me about it. Even when I confronted her she continues to deny it, and tells me it is none of my business. She calls me a stalker now because I called her house to see whether she was actually there (wasn't, of course) What I want to know is why would she lie to me about it if she wants to be with somebody else? She refuses to talk to me about the subject and it really bothers me.

2006-10-25 06:20:20 · 19 answers · asked by sincarnato 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your partner wanted to do something sexually that didn't feel right, or make you feel right...maybe you thought it was disrepsectful, degrading, scary? Are there limits to what you are willing to do for your partner? Does it have anything to do with what they do for you in other areas. Like if you have the world's greatest husband/wife but then they want you to try something in bed that you normally would not do....does it make a difference that they are fulfilling your needs in other ways and so you should do whatever they want to make them happy too? Or do you think that you should only do what you are comfortable doing, no matter what?

Explain please and examples are always helpful.

2006-10-25 06:19:06 · 5 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Singles & Dating

..hurt your feelings and he knows it. Will he eventually come back around to apologize?

This happened last night:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aome0i4VVv1o1B2OMBBMiQ_sy6IX?qid=20061025061437AAGF6JU

We are friends in real life, but also have each other on our myspace friends list. I wrote him back after he yelled at me and told him "you want to hurt me, congratualtions. I am NOT your enemy here." later, I de-friended him from myspace. He said nothing.

I'm sure that that is the end, but I am just curious as to if I should be prepared for him to try to talk to me again...what do you think?

2006-10-25 06:18:52 · 10 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for four years off and on, but he last two years we've been together without any break ups. He said he wants to marry me and he tells everyone that I am his fiance, but I dont have a ring yet. Am I really his fiance or is he just saying it because it sounds nice. Aslo I love him more with all my heart and we have a beatiful son together. I really want to be with him the rest of my life. Should I go ahead and ask him to marry me or should I wait until he actually does?

2006-10-25 06:18:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 06:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by bcuzimagirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom seems to want me to be a carbon copy of her. She piles herself in clothes and makeup and barely does her hair, and she wants to complain because I choose to wear clothes that aren't REVEALING, but don't make me look 30 pounds heavier, and I choose to wear side bangs that occasionally cover my eye. She attacks anything I do different, from drawing X's on my hands to the colors I wear. I honestly crave to tell her that it's not HER hair or HER body or HER eye or HER hands, but I don't want to be that spoiled. What can I do?

2006-10-25 06:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a really hot girlfriend- because I am nice, cute and rich. But, I am not blessed with size and I am a really quick "shooter Mcgavin" if you know what I mean. Call me two pump stump- if i get that far. I can't help it...I get too excited. And when I manage to get past that, I am not really that "blessed" with scuba skills. I am more of a surface scratcher, as I just don't have that deep diving tool. I think she may be starting to fantasize about a bigger, stronger and last longer kind of guy. Im stuck..does it matter, you think? Am I About to be dumped?

2006-10-25 06:17:49 · 23 answers · asked by Nice Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

hey guys i am with my ex gf and she doesn't care that i am with my resent gf and she's tha that made me go with her... do u think its right for her to do that?? Cause i love the resent gf tha one i've been with for a year now and she doesn't get that i've moved on and she needs to do move on as well.. wut should i do about that??? She needs to grow up though i think.. but ne ways leave me a answer if you want to if i don't get it email me at angel_devil6288@yahoo.com

2006-10-25 06:16:50 · 7 answers · asked by angel_devil6288 2 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetical example: Let's say you are in a bookstore that has a café.You see someone that you find attractive. (or perhaps you are the person someone else, in there, finds attractive)

Would you approach them, make some chit chat and invite them to join you for a drink in the café?

More importantly: If you're on the receiving end of the invitation, would you accept?

I call this "spontaneous" dating or "instant" dating. No, I do not mean "speed dating" That's totally different altogether.

I just used a bookstore as an example. The places for opportunity are endless.

Has anyone ever asked you for an instant date? Did you accept?
Have you ever asked anyone for an instant date? How did it go?

2006-10-25 06:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 06:16:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes, I'm married but who better to ask than the active. My husband is an incurable flirt. It doesn't really bug me but with specific people he tends to get close to and when the stalking starts. He swears there is nothing going on and when I say, "How would you like it if I did the same?" he says, "Do it!! It's harmless." So I have decided to go ahead with this idea and do it. In my single life I was a flirt galore, but now that I'm aged and married I have not flexed my open flirting muscles in a long time. With my husband my flirting can go as far as either one of us wants. How do you flirt without getting carried away? How do you start? Will I be able to do this and still save my marriage? I'm trying to understand that a fantasy life is a healthy thing and that exercising my flirting muscles can only help my marriage when I also practice on my husband. (And yes, I realize that his open friendliness and flirting was a part of the intial attraction.) Please help. Specifics are encourag

2006-10-25 06:16:25 · 9 answers · asked by Calli G 2 in Singles & Dating

I do, stronglly - because I have found mine :)

2006-10-25 06:15:38 · 15 answers · asked by lina_girl06 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 06:15:29 · 27 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with him for 4 years now and we have a daugther and another one on the way soon. He hasn't been able to keep a job for more a than a month and a half and that has left me to do everything. I just recently found out that he has been chatting with several girls online "instead of looking for a job" and I confronted him about it. I am so upset with him I just want him out of my life. Any suggestions on what I could do?

2006-10-25 06:15:06 · 25 answers · asked by ceci_garcia21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a man you really liked said he'd have date you a year before you could become intimate? Meaning both of you would do nothing sexual together or ALONE!

2006-10-25 06:15:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help!! My husband is an incurable flirt. It doesn't really bug me but with specific people he tends to get close to and when the stalking starts. He swears there is nothing going on and when I say, "How would you like it if I did the same?" he says, "Do it!! It's harmless." So I have decided to go ahead with this idea and do it. In my single life I was a flirt galore, but now that I'm aged and married I have not flexed my open flirting muscles in a long time. With my husband my flirting can go as far as either one of us wants. How do you flirt without getting carried away? How do you start? Will I be able to do this and still save my marriage? I'm trying to understand that a fantasy life is a healthy thing and that exercising my flirting muscles can only help my marriage when I also practice on my husband. (And yes, I realize that his open friendliness and flirting was a part of the intial attraction.) Please help. Specifics are encouraged.

2006-10-25 06:15:03 · 14 answers · asked by Calli G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am with my boyfriend a while now. we go to the same college and see eachother everyday. the problem is my ex boyfriend also goes there and i think he has told everybody that im a bit of a w.h.o.r.e . , because my boyfriend said it to me the other day. i denied it strongly but i dont want him thinking that i am when im not. it is so difficult to make things work out properly between us when people are saying things. i mean he is a nice boyfiend and treats me with respect but i am insecure and always seem to pick little fights with him. what should i do? thanks guys

2006-10-25 06:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had alot of friends in middle school but once we started going to different high schools they stop calling and some how we just stop being friends. I don't have any now but I'm hoping that will change.

2006-10-25 06:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by Latoya 1 in Friends

i hadn't issued a response because no onre believed me. Now i need someone help to get my son

2006-10-25 06:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the head game is good

2006-10-25 06:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, i think i like him, i am really not sure if i love him. We have known each other for couple years. I really liked him before, but he didn't then i think. But like for last 3 weeks he was flirting with me, and suddenly he isn't contacting me. I am really confused

2006-10-25 06:13:03 · 27 answers · asked by ALONE_GIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your partner wanted to do something sexually that didn't feel right, or make you feel right...maybe you thought it was disrepsectful, degrading, scary? Are there limits to what you are willing to do for your partner? Does it have anything to do with what they do for you in other areas. Like if you have the world's greatest husband/wife but then they want you to try something in bed that you normally would not do....does it make a difference that they are fulfilling your needs in other ways and so you should do whatever they want to make them happy too? Or do you think that you should only do what you are comfortable doing, no matter what?

Explain please and examples are always helpful.

2006-10-25 06:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 06:12:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 41 with a 4 year old son. My wife passed away last February. I really don't even want to date right now, but I'm thinking of my son. Doesn't he need some sort of mother figure? I'm not going to be around forever, and neither are his grandmothers, the only females in his life right now. So, my question is, should I try to find true love again? Or, should I try to find a woman that I would trust to help raise my son and nothing else? Love would be nice, but I'm being realistic. I honestly believe that there was only one woman for me, and she's gone now.

2006-10-25 06:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by drummer4justus 2 in Singles & Dating

im a 27 yrs old married girl.mine was an arranged marriage.it has been almost a year dat im married n in this time i've discovered dat i n my hubby r very different in vry aspect.since d time i got married he has owz disappointed me on evry thing.he goes very rude sometime n perhaps he too doesn't like me.i thnk he's stayin wid me jus 4 d reason dat his parents arranged it n he does not wanna hurt them.i feel my peace of mind destroyed n feel stressed n under depression.please help me .

2006-10-25 06:11:51 · 22 answers · asked by anika 1 in Marriage & Divorce