My bf was married to his hs sweetheart for 30 years. She was the one who left, and sued for divorce. She works at a job that pays little. That was three years ago.
When she has a problem, she calls him. When she needs money, she calls him. When her car need fixing or new tires, she calls him. When this happens, I get upset, not insecure, just upset. We are a committed couple, and I feel she will always be part of his life, as my ex of 18 years will always be part of mine -- {how do you scoop out 30 years of experience out of your brain?} -- but do I have the right to say, "It's about time she rowed her own boat"? or should I just shut the hell up????
I do think it is time she got on with her own life, but do I have the right to say it? Your thoughtful, and analytical answers would be most appreciated.... Thank you in advance.....
2006-10-25
05:55:51
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Marriage & Divorce