asked you to wait for a year before you have sex? I really like her and I can tell she likes me. But is that reasonable? What happens if we go our seperate ways after 11 months? Is this some kind of game?
2006-10-25 05:46:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not in it for the sex. I've gone longer! My thing is why set a specific time period? Why not until we know each other better, that could be 2 years.
2006-10-25 06:07:32 · update #1
Before this gets out of hand or you get emotionally involved and she crushes you, I would just bring this out on the table, and say you want to talk about this. Relationships take a lot of work and it would be terrible to like you said do it for 11 months and then bamm! WHere am I going w/this sex is important you might get along in everyway and then when you sleep together it just isnt right and that can make or break it so having a exact time limit is kinda childish it should be one of those things you just let happen when it does, I dont know she doesnt sound right dont get to attached Good Luck!
2006-10-25 05:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a game if that's all your interested in. Or if that's on the top of your mind. Maybe she wants to know you as a person first then get intimate. Sometimes intimacy ruins everything and all you base your relationship on is how great that part of it is. When everything else is on the backburner. If you are truly interested in her and see yourself really falling for her, then I'd wait. Otherwise it may not be worth your time, or hers.
2006-10-25 12:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by coral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's called the game of you anit using me sucka....But seriously I can tell all ready that all you care about is sex and she's a smart girl because she call tell too, you feel like a relationship w/out sex is a waste of time and that makes you a bad guy to date she should move on now before you get her drunk and slide up her dress.
2006-10-25 12:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is testing you to see if you really are willing to make this relationship work. I would try it and if you can't live without the sex then you might have to move on. But after time she might realize that you are serious about the relationship and she might want to engage in some action. You wont know unless you check it out
2006-10-25 12:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you go your separate ways after 11 months so be it. It's reasonable for her to ask you to wait because it's her body and she would be the person who risks pregnancy. If you can't handle it then break it off. She's looking for a person who will respect her and her wishes.
2006-10-25 12:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think they want to form a relationship with me that's not based on sex! Which is a good thing. If you truly like this girl, then it would be worth the wait! And if it doesn't ever happen (you break up) than it wasn't meant to be and it's one less chance of a life altering outcome! (pregnancy... disease?)
2006-10-25 12:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by rtlsimpson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think she was smart and testing me to see if I liked her or just wanted to sex her.you say what if she stops seeing you in 11 months?what if she likes your response and sexes you tonite ??could go either way.do you want to play and see? Is she worth the wait ?
2006-10-25 12:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you think she is worth the wait. If it is her beliefs, you should respect that. Don't push her to do anything she doesn't want to, you never know, she may change her mind. Don't forget, love is always worth the wait.
2006-10-25 12:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has the right mind! of thinking like she does with this.. Sex isnt all thier is to it with a relationship. Give her time. if u like her enough then u will deal with it
2006-10-25 12:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to be sure you arent just after sex. respect her. is sex all that matters? would it be so bad if you really like this girl and get along and just dont have sex?
2006-10-25 12:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋