how do i get a boyfriend ive never had one and im quite shy so please help what do i say and if you are a boy and are just being nosy what do you think??
2006-10-25 05:55:32 · 13 answers · asked by Mi Yah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 15 and i dont go out much cuz i live in the countryside and have just moved ...
2006-10-25 06:00:36 · update #1
First of all be yourself, you want a guy to accept you for who you are. Second don't go looking for one, that will drive the decent ones a way, and bring losers to you. Thirdly, since you are shy try joining some sort of community group-like a sports team or a church group (coed and in you age group). This will put you out there, plus you will have fun and it could help with your shyness. And last but not least BE YOURSELF! Yes I know I said in the beginning, but it bears repeating twice.
2006-10-25 06:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by prin_avie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just moved, perhaps you feel a bit alone and miss your old friends. I think maybe you need to do a few more social things. Just because you are in a new place doesn't mean you can't look at it as something positive.
I strongly advise you to talk to your parents or another trusted adult about any feelings you have concerning your move or anything else for that matter
.I'm sure a boyfriend would lift your spirits but I think it's not the answer to feeling lonely in a new place.
Take it from me, when you search you really don't find that often. You could be having fun doing new things and meeting new people. Have fun with your friends, if you meet a nice boy that would be great for you, but I think at 15 you hardly need to worry that you are going to be single for life or that your biological clock is ticking!
Also remember, a boyfriend isn't a fashion accessory, "everybody" might well have one but that doesn't mean if you don't there's somewthing horribly wrong with you.
take care
S
x
2006-10-25 06:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny you have a long time to date! I am 20, i was 15 not too long ago. I remember wanting a boyfriend at 15, and I couldn't date yet b/c my parents said I was too young, had to wait till i was 16. The best advice i can give you is, be yourself. Don't go looking for one, Just enjoy having fun with your friends, and let the boys come to you. The thing my boyfriend said he liked about me, was my confidence. He said I had enough confidence to be myself funny, and outgoing, but i was over confident by being cocky.
So walk tall because your a gorgeous girl!
2006-10-25 06:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by WoWzIe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As crazy as this may sounds to you, but it's true... you don't need a boyfriend to be happy. You can want a boyfriend, look for one... but don't let it consume your life! There isn't a formula for getting a boyfiend, there isn't a prayer or a magic spell or an item of clothing. You shouldn't have to change, but you will eventually come out of your shell and someone will notice that you are amazing. Don't dwell on it, just live your life.
2006-10-25 06:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly_girl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not worry about it! without meaning to sound patronising you are only 15, i'm 24 and some of my friends have never had serious / long term boyfriends but we all have lots of fun looking! and the ones that have had boyfriends are mostly single now so just back to where they started! just enjoy your life as it is and when he comes along will be a good suprise x
2006-10-25 06:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by pixie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is still very young and boyfriends can sometimes be a load of trouble, but i can understand that you want to meet boys!
Never say no to party invitations and other social events, and just let things happen, but whatever you do, please do be aware that there are plenty of boys who will just want to have sex with you and then dump you, so don't get involved with a boy in that way just so that you can say you have got a boyfriend. It really isnt worth it.
Let friendships develop at their own pace.
2006-10-25 06:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, I never got a boyfriend till i was 17, it lasted 5 1/2 years and i have a beautiful son--we are also still very good friends!!
So just worry about having fun--u'll find someone!!
xxx
2006-10-25 06:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by rachxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry i didn't have a bf till i was 16, a guy will come along and treat u the way you need to be treated.
you just have to get ur self out there and have fun its all bout you and don't do anything till you feel ready
Ur time will come gd luck
2006-10-25 06:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by xx-bbz-xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer at 59 and still looking and socialising, is don't be in a hurry life's too good and at 15 the worlds your oyster, but do take care darling.
2006-10-25 07:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by razersharp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advise from a guy............
i was the same years ago.. it comes when ever you do'nt expect it , the library is the best place, or the launderette , do'nt need to say anything, just smile, it always works, let them speak first and let them to make the first silly mistakes
advise from the wife.....
be your self and the prince wil come and do'nt listen to my husband how do you think i got my man!!!!!!!in the PUB after a few bears!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 14 years later 3 kids!!!!!!!!!!!!! still happy and having the best time of my life with him
2006-10-25 06:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by stevi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋