Why do women do this to other women knowing it hurts?

Question

I know that most men are going to try to cheat but if you no the women he is tring to do it with knows your married and does it anyway, which she did! i know she needs her *** kicked but im just wondering why she done it anyway knowing how bad it hurts us for our men to do this to us

Answer 1

I myself have often wondered why anyone would want to put themselves in the position of being the "other woman". It seems like even if you win (get the guy for keeps) you lose (now you're stuck with a cheating loser).

But the bottom line is this:
It is the duty of the people in a relationship to value and protect that relationship.

It feels better to blame the other woman but ultimately, your spouse is 100% to blame. If it wasn't her it would have been someone else.

Answer 2

It is called being selfish. For some reason some women think that it is nice to have everything and things that other people have. They don't know that when someone has done it to someone else it just makes them less of a man. Those men will never be looked at the same way ever. It may have hurt, but you don't know she may have taken a pain off of your hands!

Answer 3

I think a lot of the woman who have relations with the opposite sex knowing they are in a commited relationship with someone else have low self esteem. Its kind of like a game to help improve their insecurities or help improve themselves. They feel that they sort of need that because that is the ultimate feeling of being wanted. I personally dont understand it and they do have some real issues to sort out. But also on another note think about it this way people in a general sense like what they cant have. Its scary but you need to find someone that isnt going to be tempted in that way. Good Luck and if you need back up I'll beat her too. ;)

Answer 4

because we as women sometimes lose ourself..and we want so much to feel in POWER over the wife/girlfriend that we do stupid things like this...thinking that we can take the man away form his wife/girlfriend..when in fact these men who cheat are only after one thing...but also we can't always blame the women..if he knows that he has a women why the hell is he cheating then..

by you knowing that he cheated..you have to decide if you still want to be with him.

Answer 5

We all know cheating is bad, either by man or by a woman. Still people do it for some temporary gains. It is human nature. You know the dog's tail. You keep it straight by strapping a wooden stick to the tail for one week just to keep it straight. Remove the stick. It will go back to the original bent state!

Answer 6

Women sleep with Married men because that man has talked her into it (or she's just a sl*t). Men who want to cheat will say anything, they say their wife isn't putting out, that the marriage is already over... on and on. Your husband is the one who should have his a** kicked, he cheated on you, and probably used her.

Answer 7

First let's get something straight!! Most men do NOT cheat. That is something only morally weak men do. MOST men are faithfull. If most men that you know cheat, you need to change the type of company you keep.

Second, if he cheated he is not worth a minute of your time. Dump the chump and let her have him. Go on with your life. If you look carefully enough you will find someone who will not cheat on you.

Answer 8

Women dont give the first f*ck about you, first of all. Why should they? They feel like they've done something by screwing YOUR man, it makes them feel like they have one up on you....where they get played is where he comes home EVERY NIGHT!

I personally dont do well with a no good man, no one should. Girl, let me tell you. You need to handle this situation before it takes you to the damn nut house. I am speaking from experience!!

Tell your man you know the deal, if you know that much about the situation, then there's something already lacking in the respect department. Tell him that you're going to recognize game on his a$$. Girl, if he's puttin it out on Frontstreet like that to you, flirt with one of his friends, or hang out with one of his friends. Give him a dose of that f*cked up medicine he's giving you!!

Handle that broad also, let her know that she can have him whenever she wants, you dont want that tired a$$ d*ck! Let her know you're f*cking someone else, even if you're not. That will take away that feeling of having something over your head.

GIRL, YOU HAVE TO TAKE THEIR POWERS AWAY THE POWERFUL WAY, and notice, there was no physical contect needed! Dont break your nails or mess your hair up for NO broad!!

Answer 9

For the women that do this they are out for SELF and do not care about the hurt or pain you may feel in the end. They dont owe you anything just because your a female and knows what it feels like. Ultimately...its your mate that was commited to you and its him that the angry should be directed to.

Answer 10

right, like women don't cheat !! And to just throw out the generalization that all men are going to cheat shows how ignorant you are. I'm thinking that your husband cheated on you due to your lack of grammar skills. Go back and finish 3rd grade english communications class.