2006-10-25 05:57:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If my experience is anything to go by, it makes them think you are desperate for sex and they hope to get it and avoid responsibility at the same time.
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2006-10-25 05:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some guys it is a turn on and for others it scares them away. I do not care if she is a single mother or not, I care more about the person she is. Being a single mother can tell you a lot about her, does she take care of her responsibilities as mother, how does she handle her schedule. Knowing she is a single mother signals to a lot of guys that he will have to share time with a child and they do not like that. If it turns a guy off, then let them go, chances are they are only after one thing anyhow...
2006-10-25 06:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men don't want to think that they are going to be "stuck" raising some other mans children. it really sucks but actually if the guy is any type of real man, and isn't a total a** then it shouldn't matter to him. most men are selfish & jealous, some more than others. Not all men think that way about a single mom and my advise to you is just when you date someone or meet someone, be honest with them with the fact that you have children right up front.it might take a long time to find the right guy but he will be worth it in the end...
2006-10-25 06:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by imbummin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is, you don't want to be with that man, simple. Never ever compromise this, never put your children second to any man. Any man worth it will not want to be with a woman who puts her child in second place.
There are plenty of men in this world, who would love a family and children above all else but have never had the opportunity to have either. There are men in this world, who can love a child as their own- and there is a difference between a father and a dad.
They do exist and the right person will love you because you are a great mother, and will love your children as much as he does you. Never give up hope of finding that.
Men of this type are jewels to be treasured, so keep your eyes open in unlikely places.. and don't let him pass by.
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2006-10-25 06:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not instantly, but it certainly complicates things. The guys who are just looking for a good time with no strings will obviously run. Dating a woman with kids can be like skipping a million steps in the relationship. Just make sure that whoever you're dating realizes that he's not expected to be a father-figure yet. He's dating you, and not your kids. At least not right away. That should take some of the pressure off early in the relationship.
2006-10-25 06:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Beardog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mother of 3 sweetie and the men I date know that me and my kids are a package deal so, take it or leave it. I am a nice catch so, no one has had a problem yet! Usually, its the little boys that have no goals or no intent for a long-term relationship that have the problem. Men..... take it and go with the flow of meeting a great woman! If he is turned off because of your beautiful children....send him packing! You can do better!
2006-10-25 06:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a man. I think some men don't want to take on the financial responsibility of a child that isn't his. They may want to date or marry a woman that is free of baggage and that is their right. Putting it frankly if a man has no interest in your child then you have no interest in him. There are many men who will lover your child like their own. How could a man not fall in love with what is an extension of you. Good luck!
2006-10-25 06:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Alot of men find single moms very attractive, they can manage their own home, pay the bills put food on the table, and even have enough time left over to love and care for their child!
You have alot of stregnths..that a good man will admire!
Ps. remarried Mom here..hold your head up!
2006-10-25 06:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by kat k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no actually as i am due to be seperated from my husband and for some reason men are flocking around me (no i havent got a big head) they all know i have children under 5 so no i dont think being a single mum is a turn off if you can seperate the two for a while you know weekends for your fun e.t.c
2006-10-25 06:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by jules 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut off. They are both abusive mentally and physically. Do not feel bad grandma or not she has proven she is not worthy of being in your childs life. She attacked u. My MIL has trashed talked me be4 because I refuse her to see my child I am still with my husband he agrees. She blames it all on me. If you can't respect the parents then you cant see the grandchildren.. I would get a lawyer since a child is involved and see what you can do about custody. You never know!!
2016-05-22 13:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to all men I myself used to date a single mum until the child's father came back on the scene.
2006-10-25 06:06:44 · answer #11 · answered by HAWKEYE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋