Me and my ex have been broken for what... two weeks not, but she till keeps texting and calling me... i usually dont want to answer... but i do but i uually give her one word answers... but she did that when we were going out... does that make me a bad person?
2006-10-25 05:53:53 · 24 answers · asked by Paris, je t'aime 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it does not not if she is the one that didnt like been in thr realationship too.so no it does not make you a bad preson jused a preson who wishes to keep your word and leave her alone.so dont think its your fult that she lefted you ok justed telll her you want your space and to leave you alone if you want to be friends but not as close as you where before ok i hope this help you ok later take care ok
2006-10-25 06:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by crazyberta 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're broken up, I wouldn't even answer the phone. Eventually she'll get the picture when you don't respond. May be tough and annoying for a while. You are not a bad person, you just want to move on.
2006-10-25 12:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends do you or would you be willing to get back with her, do you love her??? If you answered no then you don't want to lead her on but you do need to tell her straight out that you guys will never be together again so she does not keep hanging on, girls need to be told exactly how your feeling other wise we will keep trying!! Don't be a jerk and not answer her then she'll keep calling just be HONEST and she'll get the picture......
2006-10-25 12:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably wanting to get back together , or trying to find out if she mattered to you
no you're not bad at all, maybe say, to her with no disrespect you need down time from her before you can consider friendship after a romantic relationship
or change your number
2006-10-25 13:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's part of the break up pattern - don't answer her, eventually she will leave you alone. And, no, it doesn't make you a bad person. It just makes you someone who wants to move on, which is what she needs to do.
2006-10-25 12:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not. unfortunately we women can be kind of dumb sometimes when we get dumped. why? i have no idea. kind of like being dumped is negotiable. she's trying to talk you out of it. The best thing for you to do (and for her) is to block her calls and texts. let her move on. anytime you text her back..her heart rate goes up hoping that you will say something she can interpet as you wanting to get back together.
2006-10-25 13:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its best to cut it off all together and make the other person move on.. ...if she acted that way while you guys were together then, you are not wrong for doing it now.. ...you may be keeping her holding on by answering her at all. ...you may need to leave her all period... ..its over so, why is she calling you?
2006-10-25 12:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and quit returning and answering her calls and text or she will never leave you alone. An ex is just that so quit dragging it along
2006-10-25 12:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if doesn't matter to you anymore and if you don't wanna talk to her then don't answer the phone,if your really that serious about not being with her ignore the hell outta her calls and she'll stop calling!
2006-10-25 13:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a bad person just because you dont want to talk to her just tell her you dont want to talk (in a nice way)
2006-10-25 12:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jonesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋