i hate that! lol
2006-10-25 05:56:21 · 43 answers · asked by JIVE TURKEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey we got errands to run so just do it and let us go back to shopping ROTFL
2006-10-25 05:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it doesn't have to with the physical side of sex more so than it has to do with the mental side of it. Some times when you get a partner who just "Lays there", Nine times out of ten, they are either not interested in the person for whom they are dealing with or they are inexperienced and don't know what to do. The best way to resolve this problem (That's if your relation hasn't dissolved before this point) is to engage in some intimate conversation about sex with your partner. Find out what he or she likes and doesn't like, what their past has been with reference to partner's and sex. If there is a level of discomfort during sex or before sex. You just never know a person's background with reference to sex.
The bottom line is, you need to get into your partner's head before you get into their pants.
2006-10-25 06:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Bee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I could ask the same question using a man for my example.Let's see, why do some men think that their penis is the way to complete satisfaction for the woman,but insist on a little extra activity from the woman for them selves?Like they expect oral sex,but refuse to indulge them selves.Some men don't even kiss or cuddle or ,forget it,I've had this conversation so many times it's boring me.
2006-10-25 06:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It probably means they don't really like you. Women who aren't enthusiastic in bed are usually either trying to get something from you (money, promotion, or revenge on somebody else) or they are afraid that you might get mad and hurt them if they refuse you.
Unless you're in New Zealand, don't believe the answerers who say that the woman stays limp because of her strict upbringing. All the uptight babes I know live in Christchurch. You know who you are.
2006-10-25 06:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be 50/50, not one sided. Play her game back and next time it is about to happen just lay on your back and make her do the work. Maybe then she will reconsider being so lazy in the sack.
2006-10-25 05:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are defently either finding woman who dont know how to make themselfs participate in bed, your find dumb girls, or simpl your that good.
Ask within at the initial conversation for what they like in bed. It kind of a good 4play. Talking about what you like in bed at times can get you and the person your trying to sleep with a bit warmed up.
2006-10-25 06:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by LaVerito 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well some women have issues with sex. they might feel wierd or innappropriate to "do" anything. as girls we are taught that sex is bad and good girls dont do certain things etc. we arent supposed to enjoy it. its not really that were taught, but its just what society puts on us. a vwoman has to get over certain things like that in order to really let go, enjoy herself, and learn to please her man. not too mention she may have had some sort of trauma sexually before that is causing issues. hope that helps.
2006-10-25 06:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by faiths13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hah....guilty! i do that sometimes...its when im kind either confused about what the hell the guy is doing...or im just not as into it as id like to be....or sometimes even just because RIGHT there, what they're doing at that time, feels REALLY f***ing good. tip: feel free to slide your hands behind the lower back and move our hips....OR switch it, you get on bottom and let her do the work...plus, its a better position for woman
2006-10-25 06:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Either she's just really boring or she's just not that into you. Are you still sleeping with someone who just lays there? Maybe you should move on.
2006-10-25 05:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by kristinlv1212 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Either it feels good in that position or they don't want to have sex and are just waiting for you to finish.
2006-10-25 05:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋