I had a boyfriend in my home country but I am study in Vancouver . He said he couldn,t stand that I can,t be with him because I always here and He felt lonely .He wants to talk to someone and share feelings. I call him ever 2 or3 days but it did not work out and we break up. I know we still love each other very much . He had a new girlfriend for a few days but they break up again and it hurted my so much . Right now I forgive him . He ask me to be friend with him ,shell I ?! I love him so much but I do,t know...and shell I still call him?!
2006-10-25 05:49:47 · 16 answers · asked by µÏ«Ì ¤ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At first after you break up it's difficult, but if you both still want the friendship it's okay to still be friends!
Just make sure you are careful, you still obviously have feelings (more than friendship) for him. Don't try to get back together as a couple just yet.
It's different for each couple but yes I think it's okay to still be his friend as long as you're both being honest with each other - and with yourselves - as to what you really want out of the friendship. Good luck!
2006-10-25 05:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by MissJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest I think that you should forgive him now but you should not talk to him right away because it may hurt you because you still love him and you need to be a independent women and then in a long run you start back calling him b/c hopefully you would have moved on and you both might become the best of friends.
2006-10-25 12:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Shalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are not ready or unable to just be his friend, then you need to end all contact and move on. Long distance relationships is something that MOST people find hard to deal with so I think you should at least appreciate the fact that he was up front with you. G'luck!
2006-10-25 12:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not be friends.........the saying is if it is meant to be it will happen. I've had something like that happen to me and I was in the same situation as you are but then I found someone else to date and we are now married. So he needs to understand it goes both ways if he can date so can you.. You just never know what will happen.........Oh and by the way me and my ex- boyfriend are still friends after 6 year even tho I'm married to someone else.
2006-10-25 12:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just remain friends. It's difficult to stay boyfriend/girlfriend with so much distance between you. Over time, each of you will find other satifying partners. If it is meant for the two of you to be together, fate will find a way.
2006-10-25 12:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. When you move away, you should cut all romantic relationships off. It's nice and sweet of you to try and maintain the long-distance relationship, but rarely does it work out. Enjoy your time away from your home country and when you go back, maybe you get back together with him or maybe he's moved on and married or something.
2006-10-25 12:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by bequalming 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships dont work all the time. U need to think about what it is u want for yourself. U can still be his friend if u want, but i just wont be the same
2006-10-25 12:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be friends, but try to find a way to move on!!
There are other guys out there! don't waste countless hours over wishing something that you didn't have! He has obviously moved on, why can't you?
2006-10-25 12:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should be friends becuase you friends before lovers and he knows your thier temporaily si he's just trying to make you come home just keep doing what you doing if he love you that much he will let you study and pick up later on but be friends no need to make enemies
2006-10-25 13:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by babiigurll15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it okay to be friends with an ex. Sometimes your better friends than you were a couple.
2006-10-25 12:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋