I have a close friend of opposite sex, he seems to be very possessive about me, i have alot of close friends, but i dont feel bad or angry whenever they make other close friends, but this guy who is a close friend of mine, whenever i get involved in any other "guy" friend...or decide to make a bf, or make any "guy" a close friend...he gets jealous
what does this mean? He's not my bf to stop me makin other close friends, he doesnt have any problem if i make "girl" friends, but he's gotta problem with guys...
2006-10-25 05:57:35 · 17 answers · asked by SARA H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
most likely he likes you and is scared to tell you. and if it makes you uncomfortable you need to talk to him about it. if you don't let him know it is not o.k. no one else will.
2006-10-25 06:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its quite clear the position you friend has been taking towards you making new Male friends. So I think you could answer your own question. He likes you, obviously! Even if he denies it. There seems to be a feeling of affection and protection that a male companion would or should show towards a partner, and every time you meet or date someone new he becomes defensive. Well look im no shrink but I call it as I see it, theirs something there. Talk to him and find out his true intentions, because if this behavior continues it will definitely affect your future relationship with him.
Good luck
2006-10-25 06:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mike D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is obviously has some control issues and he may see you as a piece of property .Or he may be really like you and he might get scared that youre gonna meet some guy and his chance will be gone to be able get close to you! Wich means it probably wont stop unless you become his Lady.
2006-10-25 06:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either give him a chance to be your boyfriend or end it. Very few friendships where two opposite sexes can be friends. Usually when a guys is friends with a girl, it is because he likes her to be other than his friends.
2006-10-25 06:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by s9j6j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably, some adult males are possessive of their woman pals using fact they want it extremely is going to become something greater via scaring off each and all of the contest. I certainly have a woman chum who has a guy performing a similar approximately her - she's questioning of telling him the place to flow if he can't be greater 'chum' like and much less 'boyfriend' like.
2016-11-25 20:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally, he likes you. This doesn't mean he "likes you" likes you, but it's likely (try saying that five times fast). It could mean that he thinks he knows you very well and thinks your choices in guys is flawed, at least recently, and because of this he is being overly protective, which he views as simply being protective. He might have good cause to be, as well, as he might have opportunity to be around these guys in situations where their character shows some not so nice aspects of themselves that you wouldn't be privy to.
2006-10-25 06:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this friend of yours wants you for more than a friend.....have you ever thought of trying him out to see if he is your soul mate????????? He sounds like he wants to make sure that you are protected and that no one will hurt you.....if you want to have other close friends you need to talk to him and let him know your feelings.....tell him that he needs to back off and let you do what you want to do or else he is risking loosing your friendship too......
2006-10-25 06:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by old lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks of you as more than a friend. It might be best for you to not spend time with him for a number of months. Once you are separated from him for a while, he will be more able to deal with you having other male friends.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-25 08:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend in 11th grade was a girl and I used to get jeaolus of guys but i didnt like her as a GF I used to see her like my sister maybe thats why, finally she got a boyfriend n he was jeoulos of me you know the rest of the story...
2006-10-25 06:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by jcs_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a thing for you, big time. The same thing happened to me with a girld/woman I knew. I was so in love with her, but she didn't "feel that way about me." It really suck3d !
2006-10-25 06:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you! I think that he has feelings for you and doesn't know how to tell you. Or he doesn't want to risk messing up the friendship.
2006-10-25 05:59:12 · answer #11 · answered by MIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋