Just wondering...how you could divorce someone that never cheated, tried to keep peace, and was liked by everyone.
2006-10-25 06:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dunno. People are getting divorced for some pretty stupid reasons these days. I have a friend that simply doesn't want to be married anymore and let me tell you that it's breaking my heart to see him doing this to his wife and 2 year-old son. Society has gotten so increasingly selfish, it's a wonder people aren't just killing each other more.
2006-10-25 06:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hell No! My ex and I are like brother and sister now. We have a daughter together. But I don't get it twisted sweetie. I wouldn't have his a*s again if his &ick was mounted on Mount Rushmore! It was good while it lasted. We were married for 13 years and to be quite honest with you, I was tired of being married after the 1st 5. I get bored honey! To have to wake up and look at the same man every f*cking day can just really disturbed me. Well at least it did back in the day. Now, I'm good! My second husband I was with him for 9 years. He was the best man that I've ever had in my entire life. I miss him a lot! He passed away. It was a year last August. I've relocated from state to state. I'm good!
Don't dwell! Sometimes divorces happen for the best. There are plenty of good men out in the world. Don't sweat the small stuff. Get what you want and not what other people think you should have.
2006-10-25 06:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By time you get the point of divorcing you've made up your mind that there is no chance of working it out. If you are on the fence you are not ready. There will always be times you miss them, the life you lived, etc. Because in hindsight you remember the good not so much the bad. But you just remind yourself all the crap you dealt with and you remember why you got divorced and how much happier you are to have that weight lifted off you. Divorce should be your last option, not something you to do make a point, rather something you do out of sheer desperation because you tried everything to make it work and you couldn't.
2016-03-28 07:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been divorced for over 6 years now, and I still regret that it didn't work out. I'm not still in love with him or anything, but sometimes I wonder if we should have tried harder.
2006-10-25 06:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still am........and what is worse I remarried and now the three of us work in the same place just different shifts and buildings and until I bid on a job didn't even know that my ex was working there........It is hard for me to think of our divorce and remain concentrating on my new marriage but time goes on there was a reason for the divorce and thinking of the what ifs isn't going to help you now..............
2006-10-25 06:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by old lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where you married to this person? How do you know he or she was all that...we only see what people want us to see, we have no idea whats really going on behind closed doors though...what you might think is or was a great relationship might have actually beed the marriage from hell! or......maybe the person that left was just not ready to receive love...it happens, and we call them selfish, and cheaters and golddiggers...somewhere down the line they grow up and realize how good they had it, but bottom line, somebody was not right for that relationship. We live and we learn.
2006-10-25 06:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by tpoke24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been seperated for 2 years and divorced for 1 yr, and i do not regret it. its like a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders. now im engaged to a man that i love to death, and had i not gotten a divorce, i would have never met him
2006-10-25 06:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure my first ex wife ( kids with )feels that way now,, esp since I got divorced from my second wife ( No kids with)
alot of times, marrying young we get divorced, only to grow up with time and figure out we screwed up
2006-10-25 06:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
am in the middle of a divorce now and regret it, but it doesn't matter what you think it matters what the other person thinks as well. If they want it then it honestly doesn't matter what you think - that is my finding anyway.
2006-10-25 06:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by T C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never regretted my divorce, no way. What happens, happens for a good reason.
2006-10-25 06:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋