What would you do if your partner wanted to do something sexually that didn't feel right, or make you feel right...maybe you thought it was disrepsectful, degrading, scary? Are there limits to what you are willing to do for your partner? Does it have anything to do with what they do for you in other areas. Like if you have the world's greatest husband/wife but then they want you to try something in bed that you normally would not do....does it make a difference that they are fulfilling your needs in other ways and so you should do whatever they want to make them happy too? Or do you think that you should only do what you are comfortable doing, no matter what?
Explain please and examples are always helpful.
2006-10-25 06:19:06 · 5 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK here's the thing about pushing limits - it can be scary but thats the reason we do it. If the limits are something that when suggested you think oh i'd like to try that but am to scared then yes you can allow some pushing. If when its suggested you coil up in horror and think no FN way then its not something that you want to try. So you should not do it for them... but you can try stuff that interests you that you normally wouldn't bring up. Also if its something like bondage or dicipline where you are restrained use a code word that you come up with to say your done and need out immediately - if he is not willing to do this and stop when requested then he is not ready to try stuff with you.
2006-10-25 06:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be willing to try new things with my husband that I'm not completely comfortable with or that I wouldn't normally do, as long as it doesn't involve pain, disrespect, or another persons involvement (male or female). Just because he may help around the house, doesn't mean I'm going to degrade or hurt myself to fulfill a sexual fantasy. Some fantasies are OK to act out, others need to remain fantasies.
2006-10-25 13:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't do anything that you aren't comfortable with. I am very open about sex and I am willing to try almost anything. As of today my only limitations are no urine or fecal matter, no third party and only with a member of the opposite sex. My husband has yet to ask me to try something that I wasn't willing to try at least once.
2006-10-25 13:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, nothing really makes me uncomfortable with my bf because I love him. As long as it doesn't hurt or involve other people I'm down. But that's just me, I have good sex drive and am quite perverted so I guess it all depends on the person... LOL
2006-10-25 13:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to anser
2006-10-25 13:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_tommygir_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋