My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 10 months but we still see each other regularly. About a month ago she told me that she loved me still, and I have always let her know that I love her also. Recently I found out that she is seeing some other guy who I don't even know, and is lying to me about it. Even when I confronted her she continues to deny it, and tells me it is none of my business. She calls me a stalker now because I called her house to see whether she was actually there (wasn't, of course) What I want to know is why would she lie to me about it if she wants to be with somebody else? She refuses to talk to me about the subject and it really bothers me.
2006-10-25 06:20:20 · 19 answers · asked by sincarnato 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget her. She's trying to have her cake and eat it to. She doesn't want to let you go so you can find someone else, but she doesn't want to date you either. Forget her and look for someone else.
2006-10-25 06:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...not everyone likes confrontation, truth is that we're all different and do things differently, I have the feeling that she wasn't even sure of what she wanted, the problem with most women is that once you get her mad they want revenge, even if it was their own fault (whatever it was that happened). You are best to just move on or she will just keep trashing you. In life...you have to let go of the negative and embrace the positive. Be greatful you had a great time while being with her and that you were able to feel what you felt and nvm the lying...it's not important, she will move on to do what she wants...so should you. =)
2006-10-25 13:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy , she is playing you. She wants you there as a "booty call" while she's always open to finding what she thinks is something better. Sorry kiddo, but she's not worth your time, money or your heart. She'll find out soon enough that the grass aint always greener. There are lots of girls out there who'll know that you are special and wont go lookin for greener pastures. So if i were you i would block her # from calling you, never call her again and move on. And when she comes by for the next "booty call" tell her sorry you were on your way to go meet someone,she doesnt need to know who or why. Be sure to tell her that you would apriciate if she not stop again and tell her "Happy Grazing" as your driving off.
Peace!
2006-10-25 13:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time on somebody who you have already tried the relationship thing with, and its been 10 whole months, she is not obligated to tell you anything about her love life, you are now just a toy, something she can wind up and if she wants to wind you up again she will. Find a better woman.
2006-10-25 13:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with your life.. Apparently she's just keeping u in the back field. She still wants you in your life, cuz she isint sure what she wants. I have a ex like that.. We've been seperated a while but he still calls and begs me to come see him.. So far he has had 2 other girlfriends since we split and both of them have called me.. They want to know why im calling their man.. I'm just returning his call I missed while I was at work.. He once told me that he wants to keep me, he just doesn't want a relationship..
2006-10-25 13:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by LilStar_Mom_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she loves you any more and you should move on and tell here it is over. I don't know why she would lie to you if you too are broken up.
2006-10-25 13:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by melanie_17_1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her!if you know that she is seeing someone else,and lying to you about it.then she calls you a stalker,and everything,maybe you should move on.if she loved you still,she would be with you.dont you think so????dont talk to her,and then if she calls you.tell her not to untill she tells you the truth
2006-10-25 13:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_4_dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can someone help you ? Ya, a psych. Get over it. You want to live with this for the rest of your life ? Time to move on.
2006-10-25 13:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by minnesousa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to choose, either you or the other guy. If she insist that theres no other guy, is she willing to open up the relationship again with you. If its a NO, then is BS. Drop her and move on.
2006-10-25 13:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by saldy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are no longer her boyfriend. therefore that makes it none of your business. and yes...it makes you a stalker. if you two really loved each other, you would be boyfriend/girlfriend status. but you aren't. she doesn't have to explain herself to you. just like you don't have to explain yourself to her. stop calling her and move on.
2006-10-25 13:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋