I have a really hot girlfriend- because I am nice, cute and rich. But, I am not blessed with size and I am a really quick "shooter Mcgavin" if you know what I mean. Call me two pump stump- if i get that far. I can't help it...I get too excited. And when I manage to get past that, I am not really that "blessed" with scuba skills. I am more of a surface scratcher, as I just don't have that deep diving tool. I think she may be starting to fantasize about a bigger, stronger and last longer kind of guy. Im stuck..does it matter, you think? Am I About to be dumped?
2006-10-25 06:17:49 · 23 answers · asked by Nice Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I would say that there are several techniques you can use to avoid ejaculation too soon. When you feel your about to, squeeze the base of your penis. When you feel it relieve, then continue, keep doing this for as long as you can. Sooner or later your penis should get the hint!! There are also lubrications you can use that desensitize your penis. Not so that you feel nothing, but, just make it less sensitive. So try these things once, as far as size, if you can make her orgasm, do not worry about it! :P
2006-10-25 06:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-19 22:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you can to train your member.
I have found that with frequency your lasting power increases and so will your size. Have sex with her frequently or masterbate. Just make sure that if you masterbate that you do so slowly, bring yourself almost to the point of ejaculating and then back off. Doing this will help with the actual act of intercourse. If you just go like crazy when masterbating, I have found that duration during actual sex is reduced.
With regard to size and stamina, it really depends on the woman. Kissing, touching, massage go along way in prolonging intimacy. Unless you are abnormally small, you are capable of bringing her pleasure.
The bottom line is if she only wanted a large penis she probably would have dumped you a while ago.
Be confident in what you have and who you are. That is a bigger turn on to a woman than a huge penis attached to an asshole.
2006-10-25 06:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dutch T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think size matters...you have to learn how to use your tool...take your girl to a sex shop...there are some AMAZING toys out there...I had a guy who wasn't hung by any means...but he was the best lover I ever had...and there are at least a dozen testimonials online to his skills by women who know :)...ask her what she likes...try booty sex?...if you are both up for that...also, hone those oral skills baby...what you really need to do is to focus on her first...make sure to get her off at least once or twice...then take care of yourself...you can also use those rings...they will help you "stay" longer...if you know what I mean...just talk to her about your concerns...let her know that you are worried that she isn't satisfied enough and you want to know if any of these options might help...ask her what she wants you to do...let her direct you...you will be amazed...you will learn...be open and honest with her and be patient with yourself...I hope this helps some...good luck to you:)
2006-10-25 06:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Luv_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some extend size does but not always. Practice makes perfect. Try using those desensitizing condoms that numb you up a bit, they may make you last longer. If you know what spots to hit, then your size should not matter. Pleasure her with some sex toys before going inside, that way she still gets off and so do you.
2006-10-25 06:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...there are techniques you can do to fix this. Or, you can do the one quicky and then wait about 3 min. and work your way into being hard again and give her more. As for size, put her on top or if you are on top get her legs up and together. There are ways around this too. I can't tell you what this girl will do but you'll find a girl who is willing to work with this stuff to make it good for both of you so don't worry!
2006-10-25 06:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok man look this is how it is for real too i got some tips to please the lady friend ok well first off size do matter i dont care if you cant make up with make up sex in the long run it sucks 2 you gotta learn how to eat its a fact try the abc methood you strength your toung and you find what parts of her clit are(its when you spell the abc's with your toung on her clit) 3 not to be funny but you needs to jack off before you see your girl to get rid of the first slip 4 shave the hair it makes it look bigger 5 since you got money man get pills i took them my dick was hard as a rock and got thick as **** try this stuff its what i used with my girl im like an animal my sex drive boosted and it worked i justr need more money lol to get more but yeah do this stuff and you are gonna get some good results here is a link to what i used if you dont wanna use them then dont but get some pills if you got any more questions or want some more tips feel free to email me willz916@yahoo.com and this is what i use http://www.pillsexpert.com/penispills/
2006-10-26 06:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by willz916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first off let me just say that the other answers i have read are very good ones... if she truely loves you it shouldnt matter... and even if you are small there is a comforting thought... the national average is only 4 inches... and i have been with men that were like REALLY small... try more foreplay... try forgetting about everything and concentrating on her and her reactions... if it bothers YOU then there are things you can get to enhance what God gave you... its nice to have someone who is big but by no means would i stop loving my man if he were small... also it helps if you are confident with the way you are... i would not break up with my man for something like that... its just dumb... you love who you love and it really shouldnt matter how big you are... hope this helps...
2006-10-25 06:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by jeans0079 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I hope not! It usually doesn't matter with us ladies but more with the Men they like to brag, but hell we don't care, just make sure you are pleasing her too, she cannot get off with your two pumps, so help her out a little before you engage in the sex part, please her first so you don't have to feel bad, and you both will be happy. Good Luck! Stay nice.
2006-10-25 06:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-15 06:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋