His wife left 3 years ago, ending a 28 year marriage... they were hs. sweethearts, and she just got tired of being married. She's a bright lady with a Ph.D, but works managing small businesses, for not much money. She has no health insurance, neither does he. But when asked, he has provided tires for her car. and helped her out of other problems as well -- still her provider and rescuer. She may be facing a surgery, and he is about to pay for it.... He says he would do this for any of his friends. I can't be the type of person to tell someone what to do. But should I tell him how upset I feel? Or should I just shut the hell up. We are a committed couple. I am friends as well with my ex of 20 years, but I am not in the habit of lending anyone money -- in his case, he would be giving to her. Is this out of line, or am I out of line?
Your thoughtful and analytical answers would be much appreciated. Thank you in advance.
2006-10-25
09:59:06
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Marriage & Divorce