Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

Men are always getting the bad rap for having lustful thoughts about women and their bodies. You know what I mean, stuff like, "nice rack" or "dang, look at that a**!" and so on.

Disclaimer: I'm a man, and I'm guilty of having those thoughts, but I'm not one to vocalize those thoughts, unless it would be appropriate, as if I was in a relationship with her and we were comfortable with one another that way.

What kind of lustful thoughts do women have towards men?
Do women have their mind in the gutter more than they would ever care to openly admit?
Are there any women who aren't afraid to tell a man her lustful thoughts about him and his body parts?

2006-10-25 09:31:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 09:31:24 · 1 answers · asked by Steve G 1 in Friends

2006-10-25 09:30:43 · 14 answers · asked by Max 5 in Family

heyy hottstuff..

whats goin on?!.. thanks for the add!!

get back at me soon chika!! ;)

^^myspace comment

dont know what to say back. yeah, this sounds like a stupid ?, but im shy, so yeah.

2006-10-25 09:30:35 · 4 answers · asked by Emma 3 in Friends

What lasting legacy would you want to leave those people who know you the most? What would you want to be remembered for?

2006-10-25 09:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is in my Keyboarding class and was in my History class last year. He all of sudden talks to me and he always looks at me. He use to never talk to me and he talks to me all the time while I'm in the hallways and at lunch. When ever we talk about things in Keyboard, he just talks to me and not the other 5 girls. He is really shy, though. My friend thinks he like me, but I don't know if he likes me or is getting out of his comfort zone and trying not to shy? You tell me. Please NO rude comments. Feel free to ask any questions (I will not answer personal questions. Example: names and etc.)

2006-10-25 09:30:14 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Singles & Dating

Can you have sex with a good friend?

2006-10-25 09:29:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Explain why you think God loves or why you don't think tht God loves you. What possibly could you have done for Him not to love you.

2006-10-25 09:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by unknown 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

the partner wants to sell the house,does anybody know how long i can wait for the full asking price? The reason for this is so that it will give me the chance to clear debts. If somebody comes along and offers the full asking price i would sell as this would give me the extra cash to clear the debt but that is in an ideal world.

2006-10-25 09:29:48 · 8 answers · asked by johny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im christian. my hubby to be is catholic. what church can we marry in if i want it christian and he wants it catholic? how will we raise are kids? in what religion? has anyone gone through this???

2006-10-25 09:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family

Ladies, listen up. I know that some of you are younger than others and that right now life can be in a whirlwind because some boy likes you and some other boy kissed you and you think you're falling in love and all that. I think it's great that there are so many of you out there still living the normal pre-teen/teenager drama that a lot of us have gone through already.
So, I just want to say a couple things: If he treats you badly, dump him. Don't hesitate. If he lies, cheats, sneaks around, doesn't care what you think, makes you feel small or stupid, he's a waste of time. Move on. Don't ever settle for someone who you think is super awesome just because he can ride a skateboard and wears a backwards hat. Don't have sex until you're in love and don't mistreat your parents because he wants you to.
Enjoy life. If it's not fun, you're not doing it right!

2006-10-25 09:29:32 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Kat 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you know anyone with "prison mentality"? how to think for oneself?
I know someone aged 35 who is struggling to think for himself after spending years in prison where he was told what to do and when to do it. At this time he is living with his parents and since he loves and trusts them, he is influenced by their opinions rather than trusting his own instincts. After being out less than a year, he and his girlfriend (who has loved him for 16 years) are pregnant. He is trying to get his life back, attending school and persuing a career and is probably overwhelmed. As a result, he seems to be relying on his parents attitudes and opinions rather than trusting his own instincts and listening to his heart. He is a good man, better than most. Has anyone else had experience with this situation, and do you have any advise?

2006-10-25 09:29:10 · 12 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Family

This guy friend of mine who I used to date and all and then it ended. Well I am not sure if it ended to be honest because I write him emails every week and Most of the times he writes me back within hours or on the same day when he checks mail. He told me about myspace so now I have an account there. Well when I send him email messages on there, he replies back to me right away or soon, answering all my questions and more actually. Since he replies to every message, that is a good thing. He chooses to publicly comment a few girls and guys on myspace. If I leave him comments on myspace, he never comments me though. I guess he has his moods. But does it sound like he wants to keep me hidden? I mean he saves the comments I post on his page, and he always, always replies back to my emails. Should I be concerned, or happy that the guy replies back even though he does not initiate any emails? What does that mean? Is it worth it for me to stop emailing him and see if he emails 1st?

2006-10-25 09:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by katezambelli 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man wanted a gf/bf relationship but the girl said she wanted to be by herself for awhile because she just got out of a relationship, then a month later the man tells her he wants to have a friends with benefits relationship, should she trust that this is all he really wants?

2006-10-25 09:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by coolstreem 1 in Singles & Dating

yes im emo nd i do want to hang out with other people like me so where can i go nd hang out nd meet other emos?

2006-10-25 09:27:09 · 13 answers · asked by jen 2 in Friends

My husband and his hockey team plan a big night out in the city which use to be bar hopping (fine) .Recently they have a bus and go to the strip clubs all night (not real crazy about it) . Most of these men are married and have kids and many lie about where they go (strip bars) and what they do . I went the one year and it was a bit uncomfortable (some of the guys disliked my presence) but my husband wanted me to come so I did. The stripping was not the problem it was the lapdancing the married men had did. They claim this was the first time they have been to this type of club (right) and were forced to have a lapdance by their buddy,I was not impressed with this part of the night and really didn't want my husband going next year. Next year he planned to go but had other commitments and heard that they had two strippers on the bus with them wearing only their hockey jersey. Now they are all excited about what could top last years fun. Is this wrong? Should I be concerned? Help

2006-10-25 09:26:16 · 14 answers · asked by trojan 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 09:26:14 · 3 answers · asked by sugarbabymichele 2 in Friends

I have a friend whom I don't know even I hate or I love,but he is special in my life.he is 24 and it's his birthday.I asked him about his birthday's present that what he needs in order to buy for him,but he answered me that I don't need your gift.the only moral gifts are intresting for me and ,,,,,
he told me that I don't want u buy an expensive gift for me ,but I need your friendship and ,,,
I need your ideas to buy a good present for him.kindly advise.

2006-10-25 09:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Critic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive known who she is for about four years but never made a move on her now there is some sort of connection in class like how when we look at each other we lock eyes all the girls ive dated were awesome but thats just for fun and to have some one who understands and cuddle with but now with this girl i feel something different i dont know for sure if she likes me how can i tell plz someone tell me iam not new or anything to the dating thing but somethings different about here i just need to know if she likes me and how should i approach ladies i need your help here plz write some detailed responses thank you so much

2006-10-25 09:25:14 · 5 answers · asked by Elijah J 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like is giving me mixed signals.He looks at me all the time and then when i look at him he turns away.He talks about me to his friends.He tries to get my attention.He will ask me the dumbest questions but i think he only asked them so that he can talk to me.We hadn't talked for 2 months cuz I dont see him but ever since I switched into one of his classes he would try to talk to me but this week he completely stopped talking to me and he ignores me.I remeber him coming up to me and talking to me and band class and then the next day his friends told me that he was hiding from me cuz he didn't want to talk to me.Online he asked me a question but i knew that he just wanted to talk to me so i made a conversation and then he just signs off without even telling me!Like he was annoyed with me or something!Im just getting sick its either he likes me or not!I just dont understand if he doesn't like whats the point even talking to me espically since he seems annoyed. Im soo fustrated

2006-10-25 09:24:40 · 8 answers · asked by luvfades 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a huge crush on one of my guy friends. But he likes my best friend and I got them to go out on a date tonight at the movies.
My best friend knows that I like him but she dosen't want to go out with him because he is to shy and so is she. They have gone out before and it lasted a year and he never helled her hand or talked to her. The guy is compleatly clueless and dosen't know how much I like him. There only going to go out if the date is different from the last time. I don't know what to do anymore and I'm stuck in between my crush and my best friend. SOMEONE PLEACE HELP ME! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-25 09:22:57 · 4 answers · asked by Nena 1 in Friends

THERES THIS GIRL I LIKE IN SCHOOL SHE IS IN ONE OF MY CLASSES I DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HER BUT SHE IS QUIET IN CLASS.ABOUT THREE DAYS AGO AFTER CLASS I SAID HELLO TO HER AND ASKED HER IF SHE ENJOYED THE CLASS(WE WATCHED A DOCU -MOVIE IN THAT CLASS ) THEN SHE SMILED AND SAID HI AND SHE SAID YA IT WAS SO EXCITING BUT WE ONLY TALKED ABOUT 2 MINUTES . THE NEXT DAY I COULDNT SAY NOTHING BECAUSE SHE WASV TALKING TO SOMEE GUY AND GIRL THEN THEN TODAY I SAID;HEY KAYLEIGH YOU LOOK PRETTY TODAY AND SAY OH YEAH OR SOMETHING. DONT KNOW IF SHE WAS LOST FOR WORDS OR WHAT AND SHE ALWAYS HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE WHEN SHE TALKS TO ME.I REALLY LIKE HER WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-10-25 09:22:56 · 2 answers · asked by king of soccer 1 in Singles & Dating

Posted earlier but want more ideas/answers.
I have been married for 7 years. I am extremely happy with my wife and we have a very active sex life. I wouldn't even dream of ending our marriage. We barely ever fight and love each other to death.
However
I have never been with another woman before my wife and the urge to do so is killing me. It is getting to the point where it is consuming my thoughts and making it hard for me to even do my job. All I can think about it getting busy with another girl. I won't do it because I love my wife and I know how badly it would hurt her, and the guilt would be horrible. I am afraid though that one day this urge might overwhelm my good senses and I will do something stupid. I wouldn't dare even bring this up with my wife because it would freak her out for sure no matter what I promised. I realize this urge is normal with everyone but it is definitely at an unhealthy level and it needs to back off.
Any help? My marriage means the world to me.

2006-10-25 09:22:29 · 26 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for a lil over a month now. theres jus a few things i feel that aren't right! He is 18 and i'm 15 and my parents don't approve of it so i've been sneaking around to see him. but now i met this one guy who i really like and he's 17 and my parents DO approve of him. what should i do?? i still really like the 18 year old but don't want to hurt him. and also if i break up with him i don't want to wish i hadn't!! please help me!?!

2006-10-25 09:22:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you've read my other ?'s it mainly talks about this 1 guy I REALLY liked... Well i moved on and I no longer like him. Now I've fallen head over heels with another guy. We'll call him D. On with the drama!
Well it all started about a month and a week ago. I asked his friend who sat next to me in 6th pd if D had a gf. He said no but he liked a girl named L. I got all depressed an stuff. Then he took it the wrong way and asked D out 4 me. I was embarrassed! So the next day I sat @ his table and my friend(D'z 2) asked him the same Q. He said that he said yes. I got all excited and tell all my friends, when I come back, it turned out he was still thinking. So I'm so embarrassed I cry on the bus. Later we end up going out then 2 weeks later I thought he was cheat/playn me, but he wasnt. So Ive still liked D an my friend T asked him out today on their bus. IDK what he said yet but heres the problem:
My friend K likes him 2 an asked me y i want to go back out w/ him. wat do i say to her?!

2006-10-25 09:22:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-25 09:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by taylor h 1 in Singles & Dating

im going to ask my freind out on sunday should i do it and break the ice or sould i not im afraid that if she says no then im going to break our freindship but its just that im for sure she really likes me the way she acts around me is diffrent then the way she acts around her other male freinds so should i ask her out

2006-10-25 09:21:06 · 7 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Friends

2006-10-25 09:20:30 · 30 answers · asked by silversilver3 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. I found out a little over a month ago that he cheated on me last year. Since I found out, he's told me that he regrets everything that he's done. He tells me that he's sorry everyday. And he's told me that this is the worst mistake he's ever made in his life.
I was just wondering if there's anyone out there that has been cheated on, and stayed with the person, that might be able to help me. I've never been cheated on before, and my boyfriend is someone I NEVER would have even THOUGHT would do anything like this to me!!
We've been talking about it pretty much everyday. I want to know EVERYTHING that happend(which I kinda don't cuz then I think about it more!?). He told me that he doesn't want to lose me and that he'll do anything to help us get through this. I really love him and this just ******* SUCKS!!! I would just like someone to talk to that has been cheated on and stayed together. Is there any hope at all!!?

2006-10-25 09:19:33 · 11 answers · asked by Kristin K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not talking Tom Leykis 101, Im just wondering how many single guys have stopped "approaching", and would rather wait for females to mature and act equal.

Is "dating" rigged in female favor too much?

2006-10-25 09:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating