If a man wanted a gf/bf relationship but the girl said she wanted to be by herself for awhile because she just got out of a relationship, then a month later the man tells her he wants to have a friends with benefits relationship, should she trust that this is all he really wants?
2006-10-25 09:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by coolstreem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a common misconception that all men want is sex (all we think about is sex but it's not all we want) But in response to your question it sounds like either this guy is manipulating you or he just doesn't know what he wants...either way I say don't waste your time, it will only end up with someone getting hurt.
2006-10-25 09:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Justin H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK. I'm 52. I'm a little unclear on this FWB thing. Why? Because I think it would be really fabulous to have a satisfying sexual relationship with a woman who is also a dear friend. It's the recipe for a good marriage. So, if you have a dear friend and have a sexual relationship with them, why would you want to ever let go of it.
Or, is FWB, just sort of a f--- buddy thing and you don't really care about them?
2006-10-25 09:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be freinds,with benefits??Why sure!! Why make a commitment of any sort!!Take it from a guy who's been there,wanted that.He'll take as much as you let him,and then if you get serious later,chances are his reaction will be to remind you that you "did'nt want a relationship,you just wanted to be by your self.And he just wanted to be freinds". Oh yeah,WITH benefits.Tell him to take a long hike off a short pier!!!
2006-10-25 09:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by thetdw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I don't understand the type of relationship you are talking about in the beginning of your sentence. I think "Friends with Benefit" relationship might mean someone that could benefit from almost anything. Be more clear. Act like you know.
2006-10-25 09:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Amedee B 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maby but some times he just needs to work alot of stress off and friends with benfits is a great way to do it. You relive alot of stress through sex. And i mean alot. Plus the added bonus of not hurting her feelings. Or maby it is just all he wants
2006-10-25 09:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all; him assembly a woman at AA replaced into in basic terms the possibility. cheating would not in basic terms take place; issues dont in basic terms recover from excited it is a great wide awake decision and if no longer her, it could have been yet another female. It comes right down to this, in case you adore him and he loves you proceed with the couceling, attempt and make it artwork. tell him to flow back to AA and you would be able to desire to set your fears aside; If there is over 20 conferences an afternoon the place you reside; pop in on one that he's been going to for some weeks, if she's there and he's choosing to flow on a similar time as she does, then carry it up back. if he does you incorrect back properly then you definately quite understand that he's not the guy for you. He cheated, he desires to appreciate your undertaking, the ball is on your courtroom no longer his it form of feels that he's attempting to take administration over your emotions and the entire undertaking such as you're waiting on him, he's acquainted with that he's waiting on your decision. i wish you the final of luck
2016-10-02 23:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is just seeing you as another notch on the bedpost.
2006-10-25 09:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope he is definately on the rebound.Get away from the jerk quickly!
2006-10-25 09:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ONLY WANT TO TREAT YOU LIKE A WHORE....did you need a better interpetation of what he said?
2006-10-25 09:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont go there. It will end up with someone getting hurt.
2006-10-25 09:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by salter 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋