Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

What do you think? What is the good and bad of an age difference?

2006-10-25 09:53:30 · 15 answers · asked by emmyfair 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend but I also love my best friend (yes, a girl) I wish I could be with her, but I cannot sacrifice my relationship and come out and neither can she. Could it be love that I feel for her or just lust? I would do anything for her because she is my best friend, but we cannot be trusted alone because we will act on our feelings. so I love her and I lust her, do those things equal being in love? and if so that would mean I love 2 people.

2006-10-25 09:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by aidances 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so first of all I am 18, and my BF and I have talked about exploring each other a little. I am interested in giving him a hand j*b because I have never seen a guy down there in anyway and have heard about it. Is this something I will enjoy and if so what is enjoyable about it? Also if you tried this at my age, what was it like for you the first time? Did you do it again and did you like it?

2006-10-25 09:52:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you do when it feels like every one inthe world is against you?? it's almost like they do it just be cause it's you, or just be cause of your sexuality.

2006-10-25 09:51:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK so first of all I am 18, and my BF and I have talked about exploring each other a little. I am interested in giving him a hand j*b because I have never seen a guy down there in anyway and have heard about it. Is this something I will enjoy and if so what is enjoyable about it? Also if you tried this at my age, what was it like for you the first time? Did you do it again and did you like it?

2006-10-25 09:51:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not a big fan of bare legs on women. especially when girls
wear heels - it just doesn't do it with bare feet- when a girl wears pantyhose- I think that looks really hot and when a girl rubs her
pantyhose legs and stocking feet with her hands-that is just hot

Will most women out there wear pantyhose for their man if a
guy wants and what should a guy say to ask her ???.

2006-10-25 09:51:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has anyone tried viagra and what do you think,i've actually tried it myself and it was pretty sh.it,it didn't make adifference to him either,not that we needed it ..lol,but we were curious!

2006-10-25 09:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by ♥cozicat♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

If i said that your mom thinks that I rock and we're having champagne tomorrow to celebrate me losing my virginity?

2006-10-25 09:50:29 · 5 answers · asked by emo_nic 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it legal to go to another sate to get married if you are not past your six month waiting period in Oklahoma after your divorce is final?

2006-10-25 09:50:24 · 8 answers · asked by urtechguy2004 1 in Weddings

i have been datin' this guy for two years. and he is really good to me. He works out of town alot, so i really only see him on the weekends, but talk to him a million times a day! But, there is this other guy that i have recently been attracted to, we have been hangin' out alot. He is great! ha ha...... but, I'm not so sure if i should keep talking to him, being that i have a bf and all, i'm really starting to have feelings for him, what should i do?

2006-10-25 09:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by *Red Hotts* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this paratrooper in may 2004. Our fling didn't last long, as i snogged three of his friends, plus he had a girlfriend. His girlfriend died two months after, my boyfriend told him to get lost. A year later i decided to text him, he said it would be great to meet for a drink- never happened. He last texted me to wish me a happy new year, its a bit hard to meet for a drink, as he will be working for the US army for the next two years, take care.

2006-10-25 09:49:27 · 10 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom's friend moved in about a year and half ago and in the start she was doing cleaning, cooking and buying things for the house. which is what they said would be fine but for almost 3 months she has done nothing and my mom's friends reason was because my mom is a rude bi tch well my mom is everything but rude and she yelled at my mom and got in her face and now this lady is just going to work and coming back and hides in "her room" which is fine but she is being mean to my mom and my mom finally has found a man to be with and shes happy again and this situation is pulling her down. o yeah this lady sent the guy my mom is seeing a card in the mail saying she isnt what she says she is and she is a mulipitive bi tch , and she didnt sign it but it was in her writing and my moms man friend gave it to my mom and it happened like a week after she first went off on my mom. should i be the rude daughter and kick her to the curb cuz my mom is saying no dont one min. an yeah another need help

2006-10-25 09:49:21 · 7 answers · asked by marynew8 3 in Family

I know this young woman and her name is Kristi. We have been talking for a few weeks and getting to know each other and so forth. I have been invited by her twice to see her at church sing and I was invited to have dinner with her family this past Sunday too. I have really enjoyed our friendship so far and from what she has said she is happy with it too. I plan on asking her out only when the right moment comes into my heart and when our circumstances in the friendship permit it and want to know if praying over it with her is a good thing. I would like the answers to be directly about this and not irrelevant issues. We have a good friendship and that is something that we work on each day.

2006-10-25 09:49:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i'm driving my sprinter van down the road girls will automatically, nearly with out fail ,look at my windscreen and i'm not sure they can even see me properly inside,but they don't do the same if i'm in a car, why is this ?

2006-10-25 09:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really care about my bf and love him alot it would kill me if this is true i dont know this person they been starting a bunch of crap should i assume its true or not HELP

2006-10-25 09:47:59 · 36 answers · asked by babygirl00087 2 in Singles & Dating

I have met the most gorgeous woman a man could ever want. There is a problem though she has a fetish…no not a fetish it more like an obsession she says she has to have all the time. I don’t know if there are a lot of woman out there like this or not, and I know something happened to her in her child hood. She wants to be RAPED and I mean all the time, and it is just not the rape fantasy like a lot of woman talk about she actually wants to be, and this is her words pummeled. I mean I do not know what to do and she is all ways on my mine thinking is she safe how she is doing you get the picture. Any way we have chatted on line for 6 year and never met…until last week. Mainly this was because I was deployed all the time. Yes I am in the military, but in the reserves. Well when I laid my eyes on her for the first time I knew then I could not do what she wanted me to do and that’s was Rape and beat her. She really wanted me too, but she is the most beautiful woman I have ever had the pleasure of letting my eyes ever see in the world. I have found out that she is on several rape web sites with profiles and rape forums boards. I have tried to look this up in so many places to get an insight on what makes her tick so to speak. But there is not a lot of information out there on it. She tells me she love talking to me and she even loved the fact that we finally met. She still talks to me and wants to meet again, but still I am frozen or stuck I do not know the words to describe it. I know in my heart that I can not do what she wants me to do. I mean I could do the roll playing, but not the actual hitting, and I mean she want to be hit with a fist. I do care about her so much and I know people only change if they want…In the same instance I think I fell in love with her before we ever met. She has written to me in so many different countries it is unbelievable. She kept up with me more than a lot of my so called close friends. So I don’t want to loose her friendship, and I want more out of our relationship if it is all possible. But I have never met any one who really wanted to be beaten and raped for real. I think she is careful, but it only takes one real nut case to get a hold of her…and then she would be gone for ever. I know I do love her just in our first meeting we talked for hours. But I do not know if I could accept the fact she wants to be raped and beaten all the time and she prefers a stranger that is what scares me for her. So any light you can shed on this is appreciated.

2006-10-25 09:47:42 · 13 answers · asked by Jerry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

think it makes women feel like victoms all the time and keeps them sheltered, afraid of the world and glued to the sofa.
I know, because my mother watches it day and night and actually believes in all the negative stuff that they show on there.
I think lifetime was meant and made to brainwash women....
anyones elses POV on Liftime? or do you feel the same way..... or maybe you think im insane..... O.o

2006-10-25 09:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 in Friends

2006-10-25 09:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

This always happens....I meet a guy..we talk for a while...sometimes we go all the way meaning having "sex"....after that happens..they either disappear or hardly look for me anymore...But if I meet and start talking to someone..and I don't have "sex" with them, they end up getting disappointed and still leave me because of that. They don't allow themselves to get to know me by who I AM....It seems like the only thing they care about is sex...

2006-10-25 09:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-25 09:46:03 · 1 answers · asked by yummy _me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

God Bless and Be Safe:)
Thanks for your answers:)

2006-10-25 09:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and another common married woman who we are good friends with and know her and her hubby from years. Well the woman and my hubby made out and kissed 2 years ago. This I found out from a common source. But since several months, the woman always writes emails to my hub..anything from her work, family, moms health, and her plans. My hubby sits there and replies to every single email of hers, sometimes very soon, and sometimes when he has time, but he always responds. He never emails her, just replies to her all the time. She can even send him a 1 liner like what he did was very nice...have fun. He will reply and say. every once in a while I can be nice. But you see what I mean? Just the fact that he always writes back to her, is that good enough to say that he still likes her or is interested in her? My friend told me when she saw those two meet up at a party, they were staring and my hub was observing her constantly when he had the chance. She also told me

2006-10-25 09:45:53 · 16 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 09:45:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a 2 an a half year old baby boy his father left when he was 6 months an moved to england which is just across the water as i live in northern ireland. i had not heard from him until last week now he wants 2 no if he can see the child? i dont think i should as he hasnt been there 4 him an i have brought him up myself which has been had as i was only 17 when he was born. if i dont let him see the child wil it be bad on my part or will he grow up 2 hate me?

2006-10-25 09:45:06 · 8 answers · asked by Andrea2k6 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 09:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by sharanda f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife chose 2 nights ago.
She says she wants to be with him.
He has a notorious record of bedding single mums then dumping them.She believes he wont do this to her.
I dont want her hurt & i dont want this jerk with her.Both are beyond my control.
Iam in the depths of despair only last week we looked at houses we picked one even allocated rooms to our 5 kids.
I was about to make an offer on the house when this happened.
She flipped at me when down the street this jek who i mention i didnt even know said gday to me and wanted to shake my hand.I told him to leave us alone & stop txting my wife.At this point she flipped.She said i had embarrssed her .I said what about me he is flaunting it in my face.He claimed he didn t know we were attempting to reconcile and would back off.Which acoording to her he had already said but he continued to txt her.
The next day she was some venomous snake who just destroyed me.How do i pick up from here What if he does use her What about our 10yrs ?

2006-10-25 09:44:20 · 14 answers · asked by 69frustrated69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and the list went on, please tell me why I toke all this junk from him I am a very young pretty girl who can get any guy, well the thing is finally after I decide to leave him he wants to marry me settle down and so on my feelings honestly faded away I'm hurt destroyed by what his done to me and for him to say he loves me and his sorry for everything his done and he can't be without me why?? Why after so long He realize all this? And he expects me to just jump to him NO I don't think so I was so good to him never cheated and so on.. I am totally confussed.. what do you think?

2006-10-25 09:43:59 · 3 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now. If it were up to her, we'd have a deep conversation every minute of everyday. I, on the other hand, do not mind that type of conversation every now and then, but do not enjoy them regularly. Any advice on how to handle this???

2006-10-25 09:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by j_della28 2 in Singles & Dating

And then gets mad at you cause he doesn't have a choice? I told him he can just go and doesn't need to pay. So why is it my fault for keeping my baby?

2006-10-25 09:43:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he always flirts with me and i flirt with him to but hes going out with my best friend

2006-10-25 09:43:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends