I love my boyfriend but I also love my best friend (yes, a girl) I wish I could be with her, but I cannot sacrifice my relationship and come out and neither can she. Could it be love that I feel for her or just lust? I would do anything for her because she is my best friend, but we cannot be trusted alone because we will act on our feelings. so I love her and I lust her, do those things equal being in love? and if so that would mean I love 2 people.
2006-10-25 09:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by aidances 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just eat it.
2006-10-25 09:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are interested in being with another girl and your best friend is best for that because you trust each other, I bet if you didnt have your boyfriend and you two got a chance to "be" together it would all fizzle away.
2006-10-25 16:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun i tink that you have a really intimate relationship wit your freind and prob jus lust after her buts dats natural it has been known to happen. however you do owe it to yourself to talk to her and explain this before you go any further or you will end up loosing both relationships.
i do believe that you can love 2 people at once but in diff ways
good luck
xxx
2006-10-25 17:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by simply B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love more than one person, but it's who you decide to make a commitment to that matters. Obviously you can't "have your cake and eat it too", you need to decide what your heart wants and go with it. I think it's possible that you love her though, especially since she is your bestfriend. I'm sure you both know every thing there is to know about one another.
2006-10-25 16:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a possibility to love more than one person....I guess you want to have an affair with the gal huh"???? Sounds like you going to have some fun having sex with both of them....How about both at once HMMMMMMMMMM sounds like fun to me
2006-10-25 16:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a boy girl oriented individual so I would say go for the guy and leave the other one behind.
2006-10-25 16:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes, usually for different reasons.
2006-10-25 16:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naa, just leave it, stuff like this always turns out bad from what i've seen, keep your boyfriend and keep your best friend as a best friend!
2006-10-25 16:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by crash2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called polyamory, yes yes and yes. You are completely fine.
2006-10-25 16:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by estheru22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good to like two people at the same time.
It can make massive CHAOS!!!!!
2006-10-25 16:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it could happen, one more than the other...
2006-10-25 16:54:44 · answer #11 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋