I really care about my bf and love him alot it would kill me if this is true i dont know this person they been starting a bunch of crap should i assume its true or not HELP
2006-10-25 09:47:59 · 36 answers · asked by babygirl00087 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show it to him and say look as this crap I got from this person, do you know who they are. And see how he acts, pick up clues from that.
2006-10-25 09:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by jaylynn_tx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just as a reference you shouldn't trust anybody anymore than the person your in a relationship with, if you do you're already not standing on a good foot. What you should do I talk to him but don't accuse him when you do (A lot of girls do this and don't realize it. Guys will always respond negatively when they feel that they are being accused of something) Just honestly tell him that you got the email and see how he responds (remember not to accuse him). If he's like "Baby you know I wouldn't do that to you" that a good sign and you need to trust him (if you don't the relationship is over anyway) If he starts wiggin out and being defensive that's usually not a good sign but before you start jumping to conclusion think about how you came to him with it. In any case a relationship has to be built on trust.
2006-10-25 09:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Almack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to investigate a bit, snoop around, ask people in a secretive way. Never assume because there a lot of cruel people in this world that would lie on others. Check his cell phone when he leaves the room, look around his room for signs of things. His attitude may give him away if you just wait it out. Look for shady activity by him, like not wanting to hang out as much, taking personal phone calls away from you when you are together, and that sort of thing.... it may be hard to accept, but the truth hurts sometimes, so you need to get down to business because if you don't it will hurt worse as time goes on.
Good luck!
2006-10-25 09:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly show the email to your bf and ask him why this person would want to hurt you with an email such as this. You will need to trust that he tells you the truth. But, do not let it go by without something being said. It's always a good idea for him to know he can't get away with this even if he is innocent on this one count.
2006-10-25 09:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to think about WHO sent it to you. ? A random nobody from school/work/hobby ? Or was it a friend of his or yours ? Think if there are any reasons WHY someone would want to break you guys up .. Jealousy, revenge.... ?
If you can't think of any reason why someone would want to break you up, then why would someone go through the trouble of emailing you that, if it wasn't true ?
People usually won't just come out and say something like that unless they have hate for you. Or someone is telling the truth. Just go with your gut feeling on it, if you find yourself second guessing yourself,("would he cheat on me ? NOOOO I know he wouldn't ") that is a clear sign you know whats up.
Hope this helps :O)
2006-10-25 09:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend!!! Anyone can say anything, and the scent of bullshit spreads faster than the light of knowledge. Don't just trust it, trust what you believe about your boyfriend and the reaction you get when he answers questions about the rumor from you. I speak from experience that if someone's cheating on you, you can sense something's wrong and you usually don't want to believe it or consider it. Above all, you need to have the communication so that you have all the cards on the table before jumping to a conclusion.
2006-10-25 09:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, do not assume anything is true until you know if it is. If you just assume something like this is true off the bat your bf may get mad at you for not trusting him. Investigate further, and if it does turn out to be true, kick him to the curb
2006-10-25 09:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
E-mail em' back and say prove it. Otherwise dont feel threatened by some E-mail it could be from some girl who want's him and is finding way's to break you guys up. If you feel comfortable in your realationship then you shouldn't have to worry. Confornt your b/f tell him about it show him the e-mail ask him questions. Be involved in his life as much more as a g/f should, show him you care. GOOD LUCK..and remember there are sick people out there..
2006-10-25 09:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have to say ive done it before and it wasnt my best moment but it was my best friend and you know how people always say that once you tell the person, they will get mad so i wrote an e-mail from an annomimous mailing address
the girl did confront him and found out it was alot more times then i had thought and i had said in the e-mail.
maybe it is just another girl making up bull crap but you never know, maybe just askl him and be like i trust you but i just dont want to be hurt...
all the best,
brii
2006-10-25 09:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by sofitch420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost how did they get your email address? Could this be a so called friend trying to start trouble because they are jealous? If you haven't seen any signs that he is cheating don't pay any attention to the email. If you're still unsure just ask him point blank about it.
2006-10-25 09:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by NAINALUVS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, does your boyfriend act like he's cheating? If you don't know the sender of the email, it's better not to trust it. If you're still wondering, just subtly show him the email and wait for his reaction. If he has nothing to hide then there shouldn't be a problem.
2006-10-25 09:51:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋