This always happens....I meet a guy..we talk for a while...sometimes we go all the way meaning having "sex"....after that happens..they either disappear or hardly look for me anymore...But if I meet and start talking to someone..and I don't have "sex" with them, they end up getting disappointed and still leave me because of that. They don't allow themselves to get to know me by who I AM....It seems like the only thing they care about is sex...
2006-10-25 09:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be upfront with them about what you want and be serious about it, that way you scare off all the losers that don't want the same thing.
Sex or no sex, some men are just scared or stupid, but it will be o.k.
2006-10-25 09:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "sex"? Is it like Sex? Or SEX? Or what? Hey...do you think you're ready for "sex" if you call it "going all the way"?
Here's what you do. Close your legs and read a book on how to mature. Bottom line, you're not ready to be having sex and the boys you're doing this with aren't ready to be men about it. Just wait for a while and meet a good guy!
2006-10-25 16:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things are important to make a relationship last longer. First, you have to find out for yourself how you can be relevant (or useful) to his or her life. Show they you really care or are interested in the work he or she is doing.
Second, you always have to make yourself some kind of mysterious. Never give yourself all of everything at once to your man. Make him or her work hard for the relationship. Life is a two way street. The door must swing both ways.
OK
2006-10-25 16:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Manueldatu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want someone to know you for you, do not give them sex right off the bat. If you do, then you are only something for them to use and dispose of. Wait until you feel that you are worth something to them as a person, not a piece of ***
2006-10-25 16:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you meeting these people?
2006-10-25 16:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is an "honest" way of doing that. If it doesn't work don't force it.
2006-10-25 16:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Romeoashg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are stupid...it happened to me too
2006-10-25 16:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋