i have been datin' this guy for two years. and he is really good to me. He works out of town alot, so i really only see him on the weekends, but talk to him a million times a day! But, there is this other guy that i have recently been attracted to, we have been hangin' out alot. He is great! ha ha...... but, I'm not so sure if i should keep talking to him, being that i have a bf and all, i'm really starting to have feelings for him, what should i do?
2006-10-25 09:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by *Red Hotts* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
did you feel the good emotions for your boyfriend when you meet him as you do for this new guy? as you know these feelings always happen in the beginning?
your bf has been here for you ...
you might not really know the new guys intensions yet..
you need to realize everything you have with your bf & what he can offer you... and figure out if thats what you want ...or if you much rather be with the new guy... think about it and let ur bf know asap... avoid yourself much problems and be straight up..
let him know you dont see yourself with him and your feelings have changed...if you decide to be with the new guy..good luck and best wishes!
2006-10-25 10:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stay with boyfriend number 1, if he treats you good why would you want to go with someone else? You really don't know number 2 guy so why chance it? Stop hanging out with this guy or something will happen and two years will be going down the drain. Make it up on the weekends with your boyfriend so that you won't miss him so much during the rest of the week.
2006-10-25 09:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To use very old terminology.
1. Dating is seeing more than one person. If you don't know what your commitment is then you don't have one.
2. Going steady is seeing one person only. This is an agreed upon, chosen commitment.
So you need to clarify with the weekend guy what your relationship is and whether that is what you want.
2006-10-25 09:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was recently in a relationship like that and found out that he had been cheating on me for most of our relationship. if i were u and u think that this new guy can be there for u then i say dump the otha and go for it. theres no harm in it. 9 out of 10 ur b/f has already cheated on you or hes cheatin' on u now!!!
2006-10-25 09:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep your boyfreind but still have sex with the new guy.You get the best of both worlds a steady man and then a boyfreind who will spoil you and even better still you can have sex with the new guy all week then give your boyfreind sloppy seconds on the weekend.
2006-10-25 09:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is simple...First off ask your self. Can I trust my self around this guy!
How ever you answer this question well tell you; your on answer to the question.
If you don't think you can trust your self then you either need to stop seeing him. or break off the other relationship and explain to him why.
2006-10-25 10:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him you have a man who is working and stuff and the other one you like could just be doin a bet or tryin to get you easy. Happened to me and I did not like it. Turns out he was tryin to get a girl to be a booty call
2006-10-25 09:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by sexyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are in for a heartbreak...if u are asking this question, it means that you are torn..not good, make up your mind...if u are friends with this new guy, that's fine but if u are starting to have feelings for him... re-evaluate your priorities... you might end up getting hurt at the end....
2006-10-25 09:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him u already have a boyfriend and that you just want to be friends.
2006-10-25 09:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by MMSfaith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real tramp. I bet you don't mention this stuff to your boyfriend do you ??? What a whore........
2006-10-25 09:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋