he always flirts with me and i flirt with him to but hes going out with my best friend
2006-10-25 09:43:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Figure out which relationship you care about more: some guy who you will probably be with only for a few months or your best friend whose friendship you will appreciate for years.
Basically I'm telling you to stick with your friend-you'll never feel great about the relationship if you feel like you've gone behind her back, and you'll regret burning that bridge. I know it sounds hard and cold, but its best to stick by your friends.
2006-10-25 09:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats your best friend man leave him alone. Why would you flirt with him? I sure hope your best friend find out what type of friend she has. You dont want to end a friendship by letting this boy come in between a friendship. Unless you want to get the rep for messing with girls boyfriend you want have a friend or a boyfriend. You need to decide which is more important your best friend or her man. What makes you think he would want a relationship with you?
2006-10-25 16:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your best friend boyfriend, then I don't think that's your best friend. There is always a boundary between right and wrong and this is wrong. you are betraying your friend trust in you over a man. If this is truly your friend then tell her about this flirting and move on to with your friendship, there are plenty other guys to flirt with but certainly not your friends guy.ask your self would it be worth destroying your frienship if you are truely her freind
2006-10-25 16:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it like it is. Not worth losing your best friend over a guy that more than likely wont last anyway. I have seen friendships destroyed over a man, don't allow it to happen. He may not like you, he may think you are just fun. Please stop reading into it and think about your friend and her feelings if she was to find out. better yet, think about it if it was your boyfriend liking your best girlfriend. No one wins in this situation. People should think b4 acting, do not fall into the hole of lust.
2006-10-25 16:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value the friendship you have with your best friend, then my advice is let it go and find yourself a new man. You will lose this person as a friend if you proceed. Even if he breaks up with her, he's off limits. That's just the way the cookie crumbles in this situation, move on.
2006-10-25 16:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no! That is the most unacceptable thing, stealing your bestfriend's boyfriend! What is more important, her friendship or having a man? Avoid him, if they want to include you in something, unless you have a date, don't go, tell her you don't want to be the third wheel. Even if they break up, you don't date him. Men come and go, but friends are there forever!
2006-10-25 16:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. That sure would be a lot of pressure on you. Personally, I wouldn't date him because if hes flirting behind his girlfriends back, chances are he will do the same to you.
2006-10-25 16:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. Stop flirting with him. Is your self esteem so low that have to try to take what's hers so you can feel better about yourself? Get your own boyfriend. Maybe a while after they break up you could date this one. Assuming they aren't serious.
2006-10-25 16:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your best friend I suggest you tell him to stop flirting with you and you can find you another man.
2006-10-25 16:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by geminig 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop flirting with your best friends boyfriend if you care anything at all about your relationship with your best friend you would respect her and not flirt with her boyfriend and you also shouldn't make a move on mher boyfriend you do absolutely nothing at all she's your best friend for gods sake
2006-10-25 16:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋