my mom's friend moved in about a year and half ago and in the start she was doing cleaning, cooking and buying things for the house. which is what they said would be fine but for almost 3 months she has done nothing and my mom's friends reason was because my mom is a rude bi tch well my mom is everything but rude and she yelled at my mom and got in her face and now this lady is just going to work and coming back and hides in "her room" which is fine but she is being mean to my mom and my mom finally has found a man to be with and shes happy again and this situation is pulling her down. o yeah this lady sent the guy my mom is seeing a card in the mail saying she isnt what she says she is and she is a mulipitive bi tch , and she didnt sign it but it was in her writing and my moms man friend gave it to my mom and it happened like a week after she first went off on my mom. should i be the rude daughter and kick her to the curb cuz my mom is saying no dont one min. an yeah another need help
2006-10-25 09:49:21 · 7 answers · asked by marynew8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
they reason this lady at the house is cuz she was pretty much being kicked out of her last place and my mom said sure come live with me i have an extra room and my mom was dealing with the lost of my dad bout 3 yrs ago, mom didnt want to live alone. so mom took her in for nothing and the lady said it was going to just be for a month or two and its been about a year and half or 2years not sure but please help
2006-10-25 09:52:10 · update #1
i say kick her out!!!!!!!!!!!
what an ungrateful B____!!!
2006-10-25 14:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by tinaluvsglass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention whether or not you live with your mother. I'm assuming you don't. But, even if you do there is, unfortunately, little you can do about this other than trying to convince your mom to throw her out.
Try talking to your mother as openly and sincerely as you can as to why she tolerates this abusive behavior. Quite possibly she still has a fear of being alone. That's a powerful emotion and one suffering from it will put up with nearly anything to avoid it. Let her know how much you love her and worry about her AND that you want this person out of her life.
It would be very easy to get her out.....especially if her name is not on the lease or the deed to your mom's home. Simply put all her things in the street, change the locks and alert the local police.
Good Luck!
2006-10-25 17:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rembrandt11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention if this "friend" is paying rent. If she's not paying any rent, by all means, get her out of the house. Pack her things (including everything she bought for the house) while she's at work and leave them on the lawn. It's not the nicest thing to do, but she's completely out stayed her welcome. There's no need to go to court to get an eviction notice sent to her unless your mom has a rental agreement with her. Otherwise, it's just a "guest" staying at your house. No strings attached.
If she refuses to leave your mom alone, your mom should involve the police in this matter. Her "friend" sounds psycho.
2006-10-25 17:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a magistrate and have her evicted. There are no lawyers involved. It usually costs about $35 or so.
2006-10-25 17:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw her out and i'll come to help if u need muscle
2006-10-25 16:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should evict her by the court systems, that way it is the only legal way and shell be gone, then punch her
2006-10-25 16:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her to the curb
2006-10-25 16:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by k s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋