OK so first of all I am 18, and my BF and I have talked about exploring each other a little. I am interested in giving him a hand j*b because I have never seen a guy down there in anyway and have heard about it. Is this something I will enjoy and if so what is enjoyable about it? Also if you tried this at my age, what was it like for you the first time? Did you do it again and did you like it?
2006-10-25 09:52:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if ur together for a long time then...i guess
but if ur like not for long with each other then maybe wait a lil more
up and down! lol
2006-10-25 09:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great for them but it can be a drag for girls, especially if you haven't both been tested for std's together yet. Also, most guys expect bj's but won't give them. I would say, get tested together, then have him give YOU a bj FIRST for a minimum of 5 minutes. Then ask him if he would do it again. If he says yes, then you can give him a bj. But if he says no, then tell him to forget it because once he gets one that's all he'll want from you and frankly, you don't get much out of it. Make sure the pleasure is reciprocated. Women do NOT exist for the pleasure of men. It should be reciprocal or not at all. Have fun!
Woops, you said hand job? LOL Two words... USE LUBRCANT! Make sure it's the kind that works with condoms so if you decide you want to have sex, it won't damage your condom. I recommend KY warming lubricant.
2006-10-25 09:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only enjoy it if the setting is comfortable and he isn't rushing you into anything. Go at your own pace and ask him what he likes. For me, the most enjoyable thing about is knowing that I'm pleasing him. I don't like him shooting it in my mouth. That's a bit disgusting, but it may be something that you like. This link may help you and it will give you some tips.
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/manstim.html
2006-10-25 09:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by gapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have done it before to me its something that gets me and my boyfriend started off and we have been together now 8 months. I think you will enjoy it at the enjoyment comes from knowing that you are pleasing him. Thats what I enjoy doing it isnt all that great but seeing the face expressions and knowin they like it make you feel good
2006-10-25 09:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by MiSS RiCH & FamOUs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I know what you're feeling. At eighteen I had sex for the first time, and the h**d job, b**w job, and vise-versa. I actually regretted it my first time, because the man I did it with was someone I trusted and I only slept with and explored him because I feared intimacy. If I were you, I'd wonder how comfortable you are with your boyfriend. Do it because you're curious, not because he is. And personally, I love a lot of different things including these, but only with a partner who I know cares about me and that I care about. This is because of how it makes them feel when I do it, and how I feel when he does it. It's not the act itself, it's what it means to your special someone that you're happy to participate. Now, if you aren't comfortable, they should care enough to respect that and find different ways to be good to each other. My opinion is that if you care about your boyfriend and you're not scared, you should give it a shot. Find out how you do feel about it and find out for yourself which rumors are true and aren't, because I know there are definitely some out there that are way off base! But only do it now, with him,if you feel like he's worth it and he is someone you want to experience it with.
2006-10-25 10:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do it, think about the consequences - once a guy gets all heated up, he's gonna want something more. Are you prepared to handle this situation? You will only enjoy this if you are truly in love and want to go further sexually. You should never do any sexual act unless you are sure it's what you want. You don't sound so sure to me, so there's your answer.
2006-10-25 09:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Memphis qt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not particularly enjoyable for the girl. It's just something to do. It is fun to explore, and as long as you are safe knock yourself out.
2006-10-25 09:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u both want it, thats ok then (hope u r both 18 at least) besides, I was 21, when had sex first time... And i can say for those girls, who rush very much, thats sex in early age dont make them be cool. Its good to know what u want and what u do... its impossible when u r young..
2006-10-25 09:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on the porn site, read some literature, study about it, trust me more u know better it is, u can actually do it together.
And then they ask how come I'm pregnant, how come I have HIV positive. Honey before giving a driving test u first learn how and then u drive, well same here.
2006-10-25 09:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by bad person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way that you know if it's enjoyable is to try it and see for yourself, you can damn well believe it will be enjoyable to your bf.
But that can lead to other things too, and are you ready for that?
2006-10-25 10:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋