Im not talking Tom Leykis 101, Im just wondering how many single guys have stopped "approaching", and would rather wait for females to mature and act equal.
Is "dating" rigged in female favor too much?
2006-10-25 09:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stascia; thats called rigged
2006-10-25 09:26:27 · update #1
stascia: why do you deserve to put anyone through a test to see if they are "good enough" for you? Why dont u approach so a guy can see if you are "good enough"?
2006-10-25 09:29:42 · update #2
notice how its not about being equal, except where it benefits the girl....then its about being equal.
2006-10-25 09:31:38 · update #3
i stop approaching girls since im just tired of it since i really never got anything good from approaching any of them as a good relationship. so i just decided to chill and make money. and if a girl approach me and i like her im up for it. but me wasting more time naw im strait
2006-10-25 09:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a certain degree, and yes I am a female - but dating is rigged in the female favor most of the times. Just dont get caught up into that whole MATRIX about females needing to mature and act equal because it's not about that at all.
Personally, a lot of guys that do approach a female are FAR from mature, so think first before you post comments of that nature.
I have no problems with approaching a guy if I am interested in him, and yes I have done so in the past, but some people feel its out of tradition and male custom to approach a female.
If you're tired of doing it, then don't do it anymore is all i can really tell you. I dont know if that will hinder your chances of going out but you never know.
2006-10-25 09:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I hear ya. The dating scene is brutal out there. Girls have become totally materialistic and want only guys who look like the ones they see on t.v. So much for love cause you will get shot in the *** if you don't got money. The only thing you can do is wait for them to realize love is found in other things other than looks, money,etc. After about 3 kids and a divorce or break up then they realize this and you are set to make your move. Or you can wait and let the few and almost extinct girls who are interested in you present themselves. Then you can pick one of them. (its usually only one so..) Good luck
2006-10-25 09:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by rlld23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i in my opinion become bored of drawing near women. i've got not at all had a female chum yet i be attentive to i ought to get one... it extremely is merely which you're able to desire to warfare by alot of **** to get to something helpful. it extremely is not cool this concept of waiting for adulthood is unquestionably exciting. that ought to all right be what i'm doing, using fact no count what, a youthful lady needs a guy with particular traits. interior the teen years, there can fairly be no lady perfect for some adult males IMO (and no adult males perfect for some women). yet then the two facets start to savor traits that are greater useful desirable to LONGTERM relationships particularly than short term stimulation. I particular wish i discover a lifelike lady sometime.
2016-11-25 20:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by magoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wudnt say it wz rigged, its jus that by approachin the woman u lot r jus goin through a test for the woman to decide if ure worth all the bother :D
2006-10-25 09:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by stascia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Female here -- I am a bit bothered by the comment "waiting to mature" -- it made me wonder if you are waiting on girls much younger than you to date.
2006-10-25 09:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋