I Like This girl?

Question

THERES THIS GIRL I LIKE IN SCHOOL SHE IS IN ONE OF MY CLASSES I DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HER BUT SHE IS QUIET IN CLASS.ABOUT THREE DAYS AGO AFTER CLASS I SAID HELLO TO HER AND ASKED HER IF SHE ENJOYED THE CLASS(WE WATCHED A DOCU -MOVIE IN THAT CLASS ) THEN SHE SMILED AND SAID HI AND SHE SAID YA IT WAS SO EXCITING BUT WE ONLY TALKED ABOUT 2 MINUTES . THE NEXT DAY I COULDNT SAY NOTHING BECAUSE SHE WASV TALKING TO SOMEE GUY AND GIRL THEN THEN TODAY I SAID;HEY KAYLEIGH YOU LOOK PRETTY TODAY AND SAY OH YEAH OR SOMETHING. DONT KNOW IF SHE WAS LOST FOR WORDS OR WHAT AND SHE ALWAYS HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE WHEN SHE TALKS TO ME.I REALLY LIKE HER WHAT SHOULD I DO

Answer 1

Howdy. Good question, what you're really asking here is: "I am attracted to this girl. How can I build attraction in her for me?"

So far, I think you're doing halfway decent. You're not a wussy, and have the confidence to approach her, say hello, and have something somewhat meaningful to say. Nice job, you've got that going for you.

Probably, though, you're being a bit too obvious. Be careful about how much you put yourself out there. She's grabbed your attention obviously, and you're probably letting her know that too much. Are you staring at her in class? Are you watching her? You may think you're a bit anonymous here, but she's picking up on it.

Girls don't want obvioius, and they don't want what they can easily have. You need to be a bit of a challenge. It's cool that you had the guts to say that she looks pretty today, right to her face. A lot of guys don't have that confidence. But, that's a little obvious, and it's not really mysterious. Girls like a challenge, girls like excitement. When you flatter her, she sees a lot of it as you trying to impress her. This makes you seem easy.

Instead of saying "You look pretty today" or "It's nice to see you today," think of something more interesting. And by interesting, I mean tease her a bit. With a joking smile, say "You're hair looks nice today, but what's with those shoes?" Be animated and funny (and, obviously pick something appropriate -- if the shoe thing doesn't work, what about the color she's wearing? Be creative). If you must, say "Hey, you look nice today kiddo," and she'll say something like "oh thank you thats so nice." Follow up with, "yeah don't get used to it." She'll say a surprised "What?" Say, with a smile, "Maybe I'm just in a good mood today. I might not be so nice tomorrow." She'll love it. You're being challenging, funny, interesting, upredictable.

Get my drift? Be attractive. Good luck.

Answer 2

Well keep up some small talk after class and after a week ask if she has a boyfriend. if not then ask if you can get her number