I sorta have a long distance relationship. I mean we talk almost everyday and he calls me but i like guys here 2 but if i get a guy here do i have 2 break up wit the other since i love him and hes so cool?? Or are long distance relationships stupid and never work out? I may never see him in real life thats the thing?!? HELP!!
2006-10-25 09:59:06 · 16 answers · asked by Zam 14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a "BOYFRIEND" youve NEVER SEEN?.....yeah...your stupid.
2006-10-25 10:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by luvbuggy!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one.......
Depends, are you just missing the infatuated part of being with someone, Your guy is far away so you're missing attention and the fun of being with him. So you are looking around to fill that void.
I don't think you should break it up with your guy. He calls you alot right? Thats pretty good , considering some guys are jerks and call maybe once a week to their GF's in a long distance....
Long distance relationships CAN work, it just takes alot more effort, and restraint. It's the true test of love for one another....
I'd say stick with it and if you can't do it, then tell him the truth, that you are finding yourself looking at other guys and missing out on fun... Youre young.. live life!!!!
2006-10-25 10:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have to break up with him. If you don't, you're cheating. Also, you might want to rethink the use of the word love. If you loved him, you wouldn't be thinking about doing what you mentioned doing. You might not see this guy ever, and you want someone that's there with you, that you can actually be with, and not just on the phone.....that is not wrong or stupid, it's realistic. Just tell him how you feel, and then, you do what's best for you. Good luck.
2006-10-25 10:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with a guy in your area. Long distance relationships never work, especially if you never see him! You never know if he's seeing other girls.
2006-10-25 10:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships can work if tou make them work . u need 2 trust him and he needs 2 trust u. in all relationships long distance or not there are always other gues ure gonna like uve got 2 decide wether 2 b with someone cos u love them or cos there cute, ure not stupid thou. its very common
2006-10-25 10:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by cheeky_monki_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wud say see other guys, lets face it you cannot have a healthy relationship with a person that you mite not ever meet again its jus too hard...... anyway he doesnt have to know does he! dont cut yourself off other guys and well if you feel that you dont have de same intense feelins wit another guy den well you will have to make it your piority that you will be able to meet up wit your long distance guy regularly
good luck
xxx
2006-10-25 10:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by simply B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the real deal not some long distant person. This is a no brain er. Drop the guy and get real.
2006-10-25 10:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people ask questions like these, which are basically "Is it okay for me to do such and such to a person"? Has no one heard of the saying "Let your conscience be your guide"?
When trying to find a solution to situations like the one you pose just ask yourself "Would I want that person doing to me what I'm thinking of doing to them?", or "How would I want to be treated?". Unless you're morally bankrupt or a sadist, then the answer you come up with should be the correct one.
2006-10-25 10:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,,,,if you really want the real thing you just gotta tell the long distance one good-bye for good....If you don't think you might ever even see him in real life I say go for the real thing that you can lay your hands on....
2006-10-25 10:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go with the long distance, many issues can accure, trust being one of them, you're always wondering if they are seeing someone or if they're cheating on you
2006-10-25 10:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by crash2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young then I would tell your ldr boy that you want to date other people. He may still want to be friends -after all you only really speak on the phone right? Date and have fun!
2006-10-25 10:02:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋