Shy guy needs help.?

Question

I have a good job, nice car, nice condo, I work out, good teeth, but struggle to approach women in clubs. I'm totally comfortable when I get approached, but for some reason, struggle going up to an attractive woman and talking to her. I've been told that it's "cute," but would really like to get better at it.

Any suggestions?

Answer 1

Be yourself..introduce yourself. Don't use cheezy pick up lines..that's totally dumb and immature..just be yourself..and offer a dance/buy her a drink or something!! Goodluck♥

Answer 2

Being shy is tough but can be overcome. But I wonder why you're approaching women in clubs in the first place; there are much better places to meet girls. (Try speed dating or online sites). But that aside, I personally respond best to the old, "Hello. How are you?" routine. But be genuniely interested in her response; she'll be able to tell. You'll need to move things along regardless of what she says, and "Oh yeah? How come?" should do the trick as a follow-up question for most answers. But the truth is, I've never known anyone who's met anyone really special in a bar. I'll admit it's possible...especially for one-night stands. But if you're looking for more than that...look somewhere else.

Answer 3

I suggest that you practice in front of the mirror to talk to an attractive girl by practicing. Remember to talk about things that they would be interested in. Good Luck! And always be confident in what you do!

Answer 4

well maybe you just haven't found the right way for you to approach them? maybe with time you'll find the right way for you to and you'll walk up to here with out even noticing.

Answer 5

Well I'm shy to and well I just wait till they came to me so maybe just wait and see what will happen O.K!!! Well hope it works out!!!