I want to know what I should do during sex to be considered "good in bed" I feel like all girls can do is lay there or turn over. I jsut need a few ideas to impress him.
2006-10-25 10:03:05 · 38 answers · asked by Amanda S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what you like and ask him what he likes. You will both be much happier in bed. Experiment with positions/change positions while you're in bed. Or, get out of the bed and go elsewhere! :)
2006-10-25 10:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Merti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "lay there" you are obviously only referring to the penetration stage.
The foreplay is fantastically important and should last a long time. You should use all your body during this stage, hands, legs, feet, mouth, breasts, back, front. He should also be using all his body if he is any good. Words should play a major part.
Masses of caressing of all parts with all parts including the voice.
During penetration, you can still use your legs, arms and hands.
Push his upper body away and look into each others eyes. Talk sexy. Some like to talk dirty.
Vary. Turn around and be on top. Sometimes forget the bed. Try the stairs, the kitchen, the shower and the bath. Standing up. Kneeling.
Even laughter can be part of it, but this only works with some men, so be careful.
Dressing up in costume for both or just one. Master and slave (both ways).
Sex is a fantastic thing and it is not just about him having penetration and ejaculation.
Teach him how to make you have an orgasm. He probably does not know how. When you do have one, let it all out without inhibitions. (Careful with the noise if it might upset neighbours)
Sex is two people together. Not one person having sex and the other allowing it. But sometimes that can be used as part of the enjoyment.
The basics of the enjoyment of sex can be read in a thousand books. If you want details instead of generalities, do a Google search.
Forget porn, most of that is just about male pleasure. Good sex is for both of you, not just him.
2006-10-25 11:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey if just laying there and turning over are all you can do, then you need some lessons for sure. The thing that turns my guy on the most is my desire to really get into it. It doesnt take much, but make him feel like he is a king, and he will make you his queen. Good Luck, and Go For It!
2006-10-25 10:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by kruzluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be affectionate..touching, kissing. Move to the rhythm guys love to know that you are enjoying it so moaning and groaning and expressing how he is making you feel is always good. Touch him and try to talk dirty if you can..you need to feel comfortable with him, very comfortable before you can do that. Squeeze your pelvic muscles toward him and squeeze your you know what when he's in you. Best thing would be to rent a good quality porno.. or go to the library and get out the joy of sex...lots of ideas in there. Good luck!
2006-10-25 10:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your partner. What one consider to be "good in bed" other will find disgusting. So all you have to go is to have some talk about naughty things. It is difficult the first time but it really helps to exchange ideas and wishes. After all talking about it might set you into mood to try those things straight away. And also practice makes things better each time ;)
good luck
2006-10-25 10:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tanusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like someone else said use those muscles in your private area move your hips and grind. Dont be afraid to rub yourself somewhere during thats a nice visual turn on.
Make some noise because thats pretty hot.
Another way.. take charge and be aggressive thats hot too,
2006-10-25 10:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a regular work out but naked.
like squats
back bends
push ups
butterfly
elbow bends
sex is like working out on a mans stick, and with the goal of having an orgasim
and if you just lay there or just turn over --that gets boring ---- use your legs, arms, stomach, use your muscles for goodness sake!
2006-10-25 10:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move with him, scratch bite their is much more than lay there or turn over. hop on top god their is so much you can do anything you think he might like or anything you want to try. sex is all about experimenting. if it feels good to him do it if you want to try something ask then do it. the best lovers i ever had would tell me what they wanted and expected the same from me.
2006-10-25 10:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the guy you are sleeping with. All guys are different and like different things. As long as he likes what you are doing, then you will be considered "good in bed"!
2006-10-25 10:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by O.K.Q.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many ideas for you.....
CONFIDENCE! #1.... act like you love your body, not by rubbing yourself like it's him... But strut your stuff....
#2 - Take control ..... throw him on the bed and straddle him, grab his hands above his head and kiss him
#3- Make Noise! Nothing is worse then Silent Sex..... it's akward and not fun. You don't have to scream at the top of your lungs, but make somewhat of noises.
#4 - Move your hips with his.
#5 - Take his hand and put it on you where you want to be touched, and say " Touch me here"
They love that,
Hope this helps :O)
Good luck!
2006-10-25 10:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋