I have been seeing my ex boyfriend for casual sex for the last few months, but everytime I visit I feel good afterwards, until the emotion of being a booty call hits. I think he see's us getting back together, but I broke up with him for a reason- so thats never going to happen. I told him I would go there either tonight or tomorow, but I have second guesses. Should I stop going over there completely, and if so how should I tell him? Should I mention that last time I was there, he made me feel like a piece of meat, not a real person?
2006-10-25 10:03:42 · 6 answers · asked by Fran Y 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You mentioned in your letter that you and your ex. do not have a serious relationship together that you only have sex with each other? You do not mentioned why you broke up, now you are having second guesses. The only solution to your problem you have already mentioned in your writing, there is no future together so i would advice you to read the last paragaph which is, "the last time I was there he made me feel like a piece of meat". and stick to that thought engraving it into your mind. Now here is my advice to you, in the future when you meet another guy and you think that, it's going to be a serious relationship please be very sure of it, because the guys do not loose their self esteem as we women do, sadly but it's true so, have a little dignity for yourself and try to to make the best of it without this guy.
2006-10-25 10:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel like a booty call, yet he wants to get back together. Then you feel like a piece of meat, but you wouldn't get back together with him. Who is making the booty call here, you or him?
I say leave him alone... never go back for seconds when you break up with someone...no sex is worth feeling badly about yourself. You can get sex somewhere else if you must have it.
2006-10-25 17:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Catlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what modern man has to say, to a woman there is no such thing as casual sex. It eventually catches up to her and she ends up feeling used. If he is making you feel bad, stop going to see him.
2006-10-25 17:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a long hard look into the mirror lady. You have some real issues.
2006-10-25 17:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you won't start back the relationship so you think it best to stop having sex.
2006-10-25 17:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, your life is so hard: broke up with him for a reason, but still sleep with him. hmmmm, you must be mentally retarded or something......
2006-10-25 17:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by jackalope_00 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋