Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

what do i do if my best friend is the one i love! but he has a girl right now and today he found out that i love him by a friend of my that just happend to read my privte thought of me and him in my sprial and show it to him! what is a girl to do in this problem! should i tell him how i feel or just tell him that it my sister!

2006-10-23 16:44:55 · 6 answers · asked by butterflygarcia555 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I'm just waiting and waiting for something to happen. That everyday I'm just going through the motions and there's not much I can do about it. Life can be so boring sometimes...

Just wondering if anyone else feels this way and what they do to change it. Thanks.

2006-10-23 16:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 16:44:26 · 31 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Singles & Dating

I knew this girl for 2 months now. I just asked her out about a week ago and she said sorry but I dont want a relationship right now because she was getting over somebody else. How do I know if that is a lie or not? When I asked her out I didnt really ask her out in a normal way I ask her whatsup with me and you, and i told her that I really liked her and thats when she told me my answer. After she said sorry, she said I can still call her and everything and then the next day she called me and asked if I wanted to go bowling with her and her friend, which I was unable to do,then she called me later that night and ask me to pick her up and drive her and her friend home from bowling which I couldnt do. So then the next day we had a birthday party for one of her friends and we didnt talk much but she was glancing over at me sometimes then turning away real quick she even tried messing around throwing a pillow at me but we really didnt talk much. We havent talked for 3 days now.Advice?????

2006-10-23 16:44:00 · 1 answers · asked by Joe123 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby is the aggressive one. I apologize, if this question offends anyone

2006-10-23 16:43:34 · 3 answers · asked by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

The thing is that I never really remember liking myself as such, but I do remember that a few years ago I was happier and that I was ok being me. If something bad happened I would cheer myself up and if I was arguing with someone then they were the bad guy and I was on "my" side so to speak. But now,these days all I do is critisize myself over everything, dwell on my shortcomings and mistakes i've made and generally not like myself. I guess i'm asking two questions here...#1 How can I get back to my old self and be ok with being me again, and #2 Is it a necessity to like yourself?

2006-10-23 16:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is very nice he works and goes to school he is not in drugs he even smokes but he is a nerd he never had a girlfriend i want him to enjoy life get a girlfriend have more friends to go to parties he is so quiet and shy he likes to be in computers and play video games he is not overweight he is quite handsome, quiet and respectfull but he is 18 years old i never see a girl to come to the house neither to call him, he is not gay.

2006-10-23 16:41:42 · 20 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4 in Family

2006-10-23 16:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by help please 2 in Friends

I have been going out with this girl for about a month ok. Well my friend comes up to me and tries to start some stuff. Saying that a realtive of hers said this this and that. Well I get up set ove rit and then I call her ask her about what he said. Now I got this speck of doubt in my head because of him. I really like her but we are moving slow you know. So Why did I let him put doubt in my head? See I am just trying to be a good guy ya know. But my friend thinks snice his marriage sucks I shouldnt be happy thats what it feels like to me.

2006-10-23 16:41:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love this guy very much and we’ve been seeing each other for 4years. We both are 24-year-old. We had everything in common and we also have big differences. But he hates commitments (he actually said that). During 4 years, our relationship was on and off. Whenever I contacted him, there was no respond at all. But last month, he text me out of nowhere, and email me too. I still love him but I got scare to go back to him after all the things he did to me. I always end up crying alone. What would you suggest? Should I go back to him or not?

2006-10-23 16:39:07 · 21 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my face is not only getting acne,Im also getting freckles is there any way to clean or protect my face so Its nice and clear?

2006-10-23 16:38:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 16:38:56 · 19 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

With the upcoming holidays and family members moving out of state, each year it is becoming more difficult to "get together" for the holidays. It has been customary to gather at the family home for many years. Now the children and grandchildren are grown and have families of their own and some have moved far away. I know it's an old habit that's hard to break and we're a close family and enjoy getting together. When is it time for each family to begin their own traditions? What have you tried and what works for your family?

2006-10-23 16:38:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To "bastardize" a relationship by puttiing it black & white terms, or to "romanticize" it by letting emotions come into play...

keep in mid that this friendship goes deeply, and has not been without it's dark places...but has still thrived.

2006-10-23 16:38:38 · 5 answers · asked by coffeegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend are trying for a baby, and i thought it would be nice if we got engaged first before i get pregnant

i told him i would wait until way after the baby is born before i would consider walking down the aisle. i just want to get engaged, he had the same idea but now he has gone all funny and he doesn't want to do it. how does a man go from wanting to do it one second to not wanting to the next?

he says that i can go ahead and plan all i want and he wont get mad but i don't want to until i've got a ring on my finger. he he confusing me, he tells me he will "one day" and he has been saying this for the past 3 years

mind you he has already proposed to me twice and taken it back and went and told one of our firends that he did it, how pissed off do you think i am...

i think he is having trobble with commitment and settling down. how can i get him to do it when i know he wants to??

2006-10-23 16:37:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my boyfriend went to the movies with some friends and some girls. then his friend put esctasy in all the drinks and the next morning he woke up in his friends house with one of the girls hugging him and with his pants half-way to his knees. is this cheating? by the way he does not remember any thing.

2006-10-23 16:36:56 · 16 answers · asked by Mandy H 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 16:36:07 · 2 answers · asked by help please 2 in Friends

I think I might love him - he's sweet and flirty and funny - but he's seeing someone else right now. He planted a neck kiss on me, laughed, and walked away. I don't understand - does he want me? Is he just doing it cause he can? Does he want to feel like a stud?

Most of all, how do i react? Do I tell him to back off flat out? How can I close off my feelings to him when he's so much I've wanted for so long?

2006-10-23 16:35:39 · 10 answers · asked by serra49 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing and talking to this guy for a few months and now he wants some space so he can sort himself and his issues out however its driving me up the wall wondering about him. and wanting to talk to him and i check my e mail lots to see if he's sent me any... and he said when he sorted him out he would talk to me.and i'm trying to be paiteint and wait. but how the heck do i get the thoughts of him out of my head and my heart?

2006-10-23 16:35:36 · 5 answers · asked by ♥musiclover♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

ok dis is da situation...
me n' dis guy named michael (Brown) went out for 11 days.den he broke up wit me cus sumthin happened between him n' his ex.he knows i still care for him but he has made it perfectly clear dat he don't wanna get into another relationship.but he talks to me like i'm still his g/f?wut does dat mean?cus when we went out he was da best!!!now idk wut i did but i think he may hate me.....help?:(

2006-10-23 16:35:27 · 5 answers · asked by frisky 2 in Singles & Dating

When we would have sex it would be the whole night seriously till next day we are older just alittle and have alot of responsibilites but I would still like to have that back once in awhile what can I do to make him want it like I always do.

2006-10-23 16:35:17 · 24 answers · asked by dee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you rehearse at the dinner?

2006-10-23 16:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by K. J 1 in Weddings

i think guys who go around and make girls jealous are immature idiots who don't know how to express their feelings properly and they need to grow the hell up

2006-10-23 16:34:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf is cheatin..im almost sure..i have confronted him but he denies it n he does give a good argument he shows he really cares about our relationship and somehow i feel like i dont care whether he is or not cuz im happy with him(maybe cuz im not totally sure of him cheating or not) but how can i be 100% sure that he is cheating on me?? can yall give me tips and past experiences of how yall handle dis..n pls dont say confrontin him and tellin him how i feel cuz i done that already

2006-10-23 16:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What qualities make a girl attractive on line and what kind dont?

2006-10-23 16:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by pussycat_bubbles 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been hurt in the past by many man, so now I never show affection, cause I am afraid to get hurt again. Now I found the right man in my life, but there is one problem... I definatly do not show enough affection. I know it and tells me sometimes that I don't show enough that I care. What could I do to make it easier to open up and be able to show him how I really feel...? And I am telling you, I feel a whole lot forhim.

2006-10-23 16:33:25 · 7 answers · asked by niky319 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 16:33:09 · 11 answers · asked by zzum 3 in Family

This isnt a question just give me an Answer.

2006-10-23 16:32:44 · 4 answers · asked by kevin 2 in Singles & Dating

My life is one big routine everyday the same thing over and over.Nothing exciting ever happens to me.
I work a 40 hour week I come home to my three children do homework,cook dinner ect.ect.
I love my kids.James my boyfriend never goes near me we never have sex and it hurts theres no romance at all-I feel like my soul is dieing a slow death. Anwsers please only seriouse

2006-10-23 16:32:01 · 19 answers · asked by mudusacat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 16:31:43 · 10 answers · asked by YeaBuddy 2 in Singles & Dating