I like this girl but I dont know if she likes me. How do i get her to relize how much I like her?

Question

I knew this girl for 2 months now. I just asked her out about a week ago and she said sorry but I dont want a relationship right now because she was getting over somebody else. How do I know if that is a lie or not? When I asked her out I didnt really ask her out in a normal way I ask her whatsup with me and you, and i told her that I really liked her and thats when she told me my answer. After she said sorry, she said I can still call her and everything and then the next day she called me and asked if I wanted to go bowling with her and her friend, which I was unable to do,then she called me later that night and ask me to pick her up and drive her and her friend home from bowling which I couldnt do. So then the next day we had a birthday party for one of her friends and we didnt talk much but she was glancing over at me sometimes then turning away real quick she even tried messing around throwing a pillow at me but we really didnt talk much. We havent talked for 3 days now.Advice?????

Answer 1

If you like her talk to her, why havent you talked in 3 days?? Girls like guys to make the 1st move. From what you described i'd say she doesnt hate you.. but she wants some more time to explore, find out more about you before she decide if she wants to be in a relationship with you.

Give her some space, respect her decision when she tells you she need some time to get over a relationship. But if you still like her, continue to be there for her, be her best friend, be someone she can count on to be there for her when she needs you and she'll accept you after some time.

For now, go explain to her why you cant pick her up, or go bowling with her. Come up with something good like family emergency or something.. sound sincere. Go talk to her, be proactive, find out what she likes, if she likes going to the library, ask her if she wants to go to the library together, have fun, be yourself.